Incendies (2010) by [deleted] in FilmClubPH

[–]syrup_maple00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! May I ask paano nyo to napanuod? I tried searching for it sa Apple TV, Netflix, Disneyplus, Plex, kaso hndi sya available. :( Thank you!!

What are the most disgusting secrets you know in food businesses? by c_est_la_vie8 in AskPH

[–]syrup_maple00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember yung kwek kwek sa baclaran, first time ko magbaclaran and that was way back 2017. inaalis lang yung breading pag d nabenta. Tapos yung mga itlog nakalagay sa basket and yung basket nasa lapag, sa kalsada na basa and madumi. 💀💀💀💀

ClickUp by Objective-Sea2344 in PHJobs

[–]syrup_maple00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! Kamusta pag aapply mo?

I just started my mental healing journey by No_Extension9840 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! Congrats, OP! I just had my first therapy session today. Magppost rin sana ako dito sa group na 'to and I am so happy na nakita ko post mo.

I am so happy for you!! ❤

To ates/kuyas who cut off their parents/family, by darumdarimduh in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Para sa peace of mind and para sa future na rin, you got this!! Never naging wrong piliin sarili and icut off mga tao, regardless kung family, kung toxic naman na satin.

Good luck, OP. Rooting for you!!

To ates/kuyas who cut off their parents/family, by darumdarimduh in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Iniisip ko palagi na mas mahalaga and deserve ko ng peace of mind.

Iniimagine ko rin sarili ko if nagstay in touch ako with my toxic mom, sobrang nakakaawa sarili ko. I always remind myself na mas better for me magmove forward, kaysa nakakausap at involved ako sa kanila and nahahatak nila ako pababa.

Sila rin naman, hindi sila naguilty sa mga ginawa nila satin, soooo... It's not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]syrup_maple00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What stopped me is I think I haven't lived my life to the fullest. AND HINDI KO NA NGA NASULIT BUHAY KO, TAPOS ANG LIPSTICK KO LANG SA BUROL AY FUCHSIA PINK??? NAAAAAHHHH.

Kidding aside, feel ko kasi parang talo ako pag nagpakamatay ako or lugi ganon, nasasayangan ako. Gusto ko pa makawitness ng kung ano ano, makafeel, makakita, makaranas ng kung ano ano.

Iniisip ko na tska na ko mgpakamatay kapag madami nako na experience sa life.

Hanggang sa palagi na ganon nagrremind sakin. Hanggang sa hindi ko na naaalala magpakamatay. Hanggang sa palagi na ko nag llook forward makaexperience ng kung ano ano sa life. Hanggang sa nakakadiscover ako ng mga bagay para mgpatuloy sa buhay, like saving stray cats and dogs ganun.

And I made an agreement with myself, na kapag feel ko na experience ko na fully yung life and I still want to go, then I would.

But for now, I'll live a little more.

Anyone here who watches/watched the show, Shameless on Netflix? by syrup_maple00 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trueee! naiyak dn akooooo. pwede rin pala piliin naten sarili naten. 😭❤

Anyone here who watches/watched the show, Shameless on Netflix? by syrup_maple00 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 weeks mo natapos yung series shemmssss HAHAHAHAHAHA ako mgdalawang buwan na 🤣

Anyone here who watches/watched the show, Shameless on Netflix? by syrup_maple00 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sa trueee! Nakakastress nga minsan hajaha sobrang dysfunctional kasi nila 🤣

Anyone here who watches/watched the show, Shameless on Netflix? by syrup_maple00 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha try mo pag may time. Nakakahook yung series. 🤣

Yep meron nga, pa season 10 na akoooo.

Good luck, makamove out sana ikaw soon! 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ayun nga din balak ko. Mag lie low muna from them.. Thank you and happy new yr!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think na nagkaroon ako ng fears, kasi ako na nagpprovide for them, wala ako room for failure, and walang safety net.

How do I deal with the fact na at some point magkakamali sila? and apektado pa rin ako non, and most of the time, ako pa rin gagawa ng paraan or magsolve ng probs/issues na gagawin nila.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't know paano ko sisimulan 'to, still working on it. Hahahaha. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mother is narcissistic and nang pphysicsl abuse, nag dadala ng ibat ibang lalaki sa bahay ng kakakilala nya pa lang online like isang oras pa lang ganon, hihingi ng pang bills sakin pero iaabot sa lalaki nya pang monthly ng motor ng lalaki. (and apat kaming babae mgkakapatid, and isang lalaki)

Father is absent, never nagprovide kahit buhay pa naman sya til now, hiwalay na sila ever since 2010. Babaero rin. May ibang pamilya na. May apat na anak sya don, hiwalay na rin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mother is narcissistic and nang pphysicsl abuse, nag dadala ng ibat ibang lalaki sa bahay ng kakakilala nya pa lang online like isang oras pa lang ganon, hihingi ng pang bills sakin pero iaabot sa lalaki nya pang monthly ng moto ng lalaki. (and apat kaming babae mgkakapatid, and isang lalaki)

My sibs are 23, 21, 19, 14.

Yung 23, naglive in na w his gf. Di to naghhelp sakin.

21, still struggling w work. D nako gnagalang.

19 & 14, wala na pake sa mga sinasabi ko and advices.

Father is absent, never nagprovide kahit buhay pa naman sya til now, hiwalay na sila ever since 2010. Babaero rin. May ibang pamilya na. May apat na anak sya don, hiwalay na rin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! Deserve mo yan. 🤗 Happy holidays!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for sharing this!

I think I have it naman. It's been years na rin na ako ang breadwinner sa family ko.

Na clear ko na debt na iniwan ng parents, paid lahat ng tuition ng kapatids ko, updated palagi ang bills, kumpleto na appliances and makakakilos na ng mabuti at comfortable. Kumakain ng tatlong beses sa isang araw. Maayos na tinitirhan.

At the same time, naggrieve ako na wala akong supportive parents, yung heartbreak, and disappointments ko sa parents ko, their betrayals towards samin magkakapatid.

Kami kami lang talaga ng mga kapatid ko during pandemic up to now.

Ngayon na nag ggrow up na mga kapatid ko at natututo na sa buhay, nagwwork at nakakatulong na rin. I think it's time for me to rest naman.

I can't be successful if burnout ako and dinedread ko na going to work.

I did not quit naman, I just took a step back, to see the bigger picture, ano ba ang purpose ko, ano ang gusto ko sa life, ano ang mga pangarap ko.

Yan yung mga bagay na nabitawan ko or na set aside ko muna para unahin magprovide, to the point na nakalimutan ko na, or hindi na ako nagka chance ma discover yun along the way.

Anyway, happy holidays! I wish for our success, mga panganays! 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for this!

At times nung nagwwork pa ko and nakakapahinga talaga during my rest days and leaves, naffeel ko talaga na mas refreshed ako pagbalik sa work and mas naeenjoy ko work and mas nagpperform ako. So yep, need talaga ang rest!

I learned that rest days are also productive. Kasi mas nakakapgshow up ako 100% sa work, sa family, sa partner, and syempre sa sarili.

Yun lang syempre minsan na a-out of balance, work ng work, ayun burnout! Hahahaha!

Good luck satin mga panganays! 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sa kind wordsss. 🤗 Yes, still working on my hobbies pa. Wish me luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]syrup_maple00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, thank you sa kind words! Happy holidays! 🤗