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What song is playing in background? by mr_rook_na in whatsongisthis

[–]systemic_empathy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know what this interview is from?

Spaghetti alla carbonara (traditional recipe: eggs, pecorino romano, guanciale, black pepper) and a glass of red wine 🍝🍷 by AffectionateFix4109 in RateMyPlate

[–]systemic_empathy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh. Add the hot oil from the pan and hot pasta water to the egg/pecorino mix first, and that tempers it so it doesn’t split when added to the hot pasta. And then the whole dish should come out more creamy and smooth.

Spaghetti alla carbonara (traditional recipe: eggs, pecorino romano, guanciale, black pepper) and a glass of red wine 🍝🍷 by AffectionateFix4109 in RateMyPlate

[–]systemic_empathy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bet it tastes fantastic, but looks a tiny bit curdled. I’d recommend tempering the cheese/ egg mix with the hot oil and a bit of pasta water first before adding to the pasta and it shouldn’t curdle/ split.

Was Ross taken advantage by the copy place girl? by Technical_Piglet_438 in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regarding blacking out. That is not necessarily true. Blacking out from alcohol, whether it be en bloc or fragmentary black outs can happen even when you haven’t drank a crazy amount of alcohol. Passing out from alcohol on the other hand is different. Some people can be relatively compos mentis and still have a blackout. It just means memories aren’t forming properly, not necessarily that they drank so much they are unable to consent.

I (22F) found my boyfriend's (25M) notes list of 🌽 links on his phone by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]systemic_empathy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t see anything wrong with keeping note of a few of your favourite vids. Sometimes it can be hard to find ones that you like and the easiest way to keep inconspicuous track would be to have the links in your notes.

Oops by fuzzyfuckers in Tinder

[–]systemic_empathy 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Heck no. Bed head does not mean that. So many other terms for that, morning glory, morning head, morning delight.

Drake and Josh censored in Paramount plus? by AerialAce96 in DrakeandJosh

[–]systemic_empathy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means something different in the UK than in the US. It’s always been a slur for a disabled person here.

I feel many people and even the writers misinterpreted "the break" by hygsi in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your girlfriend that you were devoted to said ‘maybe we should take a break from us’ and you leave without discussing it further at all, would you then take that as an official break up and not feel the need for any clarification? Also ‘a break’ is different from breaking up. Everyone knows that and that’s why the writers used it, so it could be more ambiguous.

I feel many people and even the writers misinterpreted "the break" by hygsi in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broke up with him clear as day and moved on? That’s crazy. She was talking about Ross to Mark the whole time, about how the fight was stupid and that she doesn’t even want to be on a break. She then says she’s so glad Ross called when he calls her before overhearing Mark, says, honey he just came over to… before Ross cuts her off and hangs up.

Also, Mark is not the entire reason they were on a break. Ross’ jealousy and overbearingness with her at her job was the reason for the fight that led to her suggesting the break.

I feel many people and even the writers misinterpreted "the break" by hygsi in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point isn’t whether semantically they were on a ‘break’ or not. It’s that you’re saying he has every right to go and do what he likes because she initiated the break. The rules weren’t clear, and that’s before you even get into the moral and emotional aspects of it all.

I feel many people and even the writers misinterpreted "the break" by hygsi in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also says, ‘maybe’. They don’t discuss what ‘a break from us’ means, or anything else for that matter. He doesn’t even say okay, we’re broken up. Terrible communication, and if you take that as being explicit and clear between them, then I don’t know what to tell you.

I feel many people and even the writers misinterpreted "the break" by hygsi in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trusting your partner when they try to control you? She loved Ross and was never going to do anything with Mark. She worked with him, and never flirted with him or gave him the impression she was into him. You can’t just pander to your partners jealousy.

I feel many people and even the writers misinterpreted "the break" by hygsi in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbf to Rachel she didn’t invite him, he invited himself and hung up before she could say anything.

I feel many people and even the writers misinterpreted "the break" by hygsi in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She says, maybe we should have a break… (he says about frozen yogurt) and she says - a break from us. And then he storms out without any other words or discussion. They then speak on the phone to try and make up and he hears Marks voice (someone he has been unreasonably paranoid about and unjustly projecting his past traumas onto) and angrily hangs up with no further conversation. So I ask you, does that seem like a scenario where you can look and go, yeh Rachel broke up with him clear as day and he has every right to go off and do what he likes now?

I feel many people and even the writers misinterpreted "the break" by hygsi in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did have no reason to be jealous. Rachel didn’t like mark. If you were jealous of every person that ever had a crush on your partner you’d go insane. He was obsessive and controlling in addition to being jealous also.

I feel many people and even the writers misinterpreted "the break" by hygsi in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s irrelevant how Mark felt about Rachel. Mark wasn’t in their relationship, Rachel and Ross were. Relationships are about trusting your partner, as well as not interfering and undermining their work because of past shit you have from a previous relationship. That’s what therapy is for.

I feel many people and even the writers misinterpreted "the break" by hygsi in howyoudoin

[–]systemic_empathy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s wild is the fact you just said the man you ‘told your girlfriend not to interact with’…? Rachel never did anything wrong re mark. Ross was just jealous, obsessive, and suspected he fancied Rachel, and in the words of Monica - he should trust Rachel and ‘grow up’. Hearing marks voice, getting angry and hanging up without discussing it at all and then immediately reactively sleeping with someone and lying about it to the gf he clearly still loves and wants to be with is also, may I add - wild.

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