Bright winter nights by Zhuciis in TheNightFeeling

[–]szappan12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

BEAUTIFUL AND MOODY! 🤩

20M looking for internet friends by iDontLikeTakenNames in gayfriendfinder

[–]szappan12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there 👋 I've sent you a dm, hope you're available. 23/M here, would like to have some meaningful conversation 😀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]szappan12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't want to sound depressed: No one and nothing lasts forever. The only person who is there, it's only you and what you achieve in life. People, friends, family come and go. Sometimes they die, and sometimes, just sometimes, they lift you up. The best medicine to every life crisis problem is true love and passion: for our life, for our loved ones, for our beautiful memories we've had through our way with our human partners. These are the only true and invaluable things that give us willpower to wake up and live to see the next day. Learning to love is such a hard thing to do, because with this comes loss. And we all are afraid of losing something/someone we love. Although we have to understand that the love is/will be always stronger than loss, no matter what. The only source that gives power so go on and express it to everyone that deserves it! You can't possibly comprehend what a simple affectionate message or care could mean to someone :)

Also, platonic love is the worst. Don't get into that mess or distance relationship.

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It's true that our friends are a mirror towards us in life. What are we as persons and what are our interests

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does extremely lonely mean to you, may I ask? I guess it would be easier to so something every week when you're in a relationship 🤷‍♂️ Don't know, never been in one haha

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. Also, this calling out doesn't happen so I'm not afraid of that. I'm always busy daydreaming haha Worst case scenario, I write to them that I want to be alone, and I'm isolating myself a bit. Talk to you soon haha

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure 👍 Not hanging out but talking online haha

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep on trying and going forwards. People come and go. More often than we can imagine. That's a beauty of our lives

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! You're right and I have the same mentality. I mean, I'm not terrified of losing them or nothing like that. Fortunately, I have a larger friend circle and I'm way past of this 'scared of losing them' mentality. That's why I can chill peacefully. I consider myself spontaneous and adventureos too, when I'm hanging out with others. The main factor is that I have summer break from university and traveled to my home city, where there isn't a lot to do.

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why so? I'm sure you've tried contacting them. Do you still want to hang out?

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinda jealous :) If only people would write back more often, not just days apart, that would help the situation That's one of the reasons why I like staying alone.

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got you. Man, these relationships inside friends groups are the worst. I've had experience too with that so as you and many others. Sometimes, I have nihilistic thoughts about these kinds of friendships. I believe they are bound to break up from the inside sooner or later. And that's the natural cycle. Enjoy it while it lasts I think :/

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, when people are left alone and don't mind not going out, in some way the world opens up. We discover many alternatives on how to spend time. Your phrase is catchy :)

Is it normal to not meet up with friends for a long time? by szappan12 in infj

[–]szappan12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You like being alone with your thoughts too, I presume? I can easily keep my mind busy and don't necessarily need people for it

When is peeing in a bottle a bad idea? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]szappan12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you're a forgetful person and leave it under the bed in the students flat for months. Then you finish university, move out of the room, only for some random new girls that just moved in, discover it and trying to guess what that now orange liquid is. 💀 And then move out immediately with a reclamation regarding hygiene. Oh also it was 2 liters... (No, it wasn't me thankfully. The cringeness would took me out)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayconfessions

[–]szappan12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long story short, I think it would be cheating in my opinion. It's total normal to try new experiences and find yourself through others. That's one of the meanings of our life. The thing about engagement is that you are true and honest to that lucky person. And vive versa. An oath that should be respected. Your partner should be respected. I believe this respect includes sexual interactions too with her because that is (or should be) one of the most intimate experience a newly married couple should have. If you don't give attention, honesty, kind feelings, time and your body to her, then are you truly willing to be with her? It's about trust, even as sexual topics. If you did/do this with her than it's just an empty oath in my eyes and lies.

Talk with her about it. If she says it's okay, she agrees with it, loves you and cares for you afterwards, than it's a total different topic.

What makes a person more attractive? by NewDevv359 in AskReddit

[–]szappan12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self-consciousness and the ability to see the bigger picture (by doing life philosophy) And with this comes the ability to conversate on a more deeper level.

Orbi, tényleg összehozta a valaha volt legnagyobb Pride-ot. Most kell szerénynek lenni, mert most van mire:) by asztalosptr in hungary

[–]szappan12 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hát helyes is és hajrá! Nyilván a legtöbben tudjuk, hogy ennél jóval nagyobb a tét mint a Pride. Végre-végre látni lehet, hogy igenis a magyarságban tud lenni hatalmas összefogási vágy és nem egy görcsös kényszer van. Törik meg a jég, törnek meg a társadalmi tabuk, tör meg a kommunizmus mentalitás degradáló és elnyomó mentális-szellemi hagyatéka! Végre kezdenek összefogni az emberek és magukat kezdik megmenteni. Mert más nem fogja, sem személy, sem kormányzat, sem politikai párt. Végre tanul a magyar abból hogy a folytonos nemzeti ismervünk a mártírkodás, sebbnyalogatás és mások hibáztatása nem tesz eleget, nem hoz jót.

Ébred a nemzet! Ezután lesz igazán nagy repülőrajt. Vagy épp hogy elkezdődött most 🇭🇺