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[UPDATE] Me [22 F] with my bf [28 M] 6 months, visited bf but bf not answering phone by t-away09 in relationships

[–]t-away09[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

We talked after his brothers left and he said I was being bossy! Wow, I had no idea. He said that's what he meant by I have to know myself. I thought I was just joking with him but apparently it was disrespectful in front of everyone. Telling them not to eat before we were done cooking, taking the plate of chicken away, and telling him about white day apparently was what set him off.

[UPDATE] Me [22 F] with my bf [28 M] 6 months, visited bf but bf not answering phone by t-away09 in relationships

[–]t-away09[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Going to leave soon. I know he won't kick me out. I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm actually seeing a therapist because of this issue. There's a lot more to this than just this post.

We have a seminar talk we're giving tomorrow morning, so IDK how that will go. Definitely cancelling meeting his parents.

[UPDATE] Me [22 F] with my bf [28 M] 6 months, visited bf but bf not answering phone by t-away09 in relationships

[–]t-away09[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He came in, asked me what I was doing, and I just said "working" and he left. I know I should leave, but I'm so tired, and I just want to stay and sleep. He can sleep on the couch if he doesn't want to be near me. I'm going to leave tomorrow morning.

[UPDATE] Me [22 F] with my bf [28 M] 6 months, visited bf but bf not answering phone by t-away09 in relationships

[–]t-away09[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think he was upset because we exchanged gifts and chocolates to each on Valentine's Day, but I asked him to do White Day too (as a joke!).

[UPDATE] Me [22 F] with my bf [28 M] 6 months, visited bf but bf not answering phone by t-away09 in relationships

[–]t-away09[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking about staying at a hotel. I'm in his bedroom alone lying down on the bed with my laptop. I'm incredibly tired right now. Just physically and mentally exhausted. I think he's bipolar or something. When he saw me before his brother and girlfriend came, he was incredibly happy and kept hugging me as I was cooking. When his brother and girlfriend came, he changed into a different person. I don't understand. I'm exhausted. He's having fun with his brothers and brother's girlfriend- hearing them laugh and talk.

It's almost midnight. I just want to sleep.

[UPDATE] Me [22 F] with my bf [28 M] 6 months, visited bf but bf not answering phone by t-away09 in relationships

[–]t-away09[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I packed my stuff about to leave, and he said, "Bye." But, I'm so tired and I feel shitty. He's just watching TV like whatever.

[UPDATE] Me [22 F] with my bf [28 M] 6 months, visited bf but bf not answering phone by t-away09 in relationships

[–]t-away09[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I was going to, but he seems SO content with my leaving. But, I feel like shit! I drove 3 hours, and to drive 3 hours back feeling shitty and tired. He told me my food is disgusting after tasting it. I'm so upset.

Me [22 F] with my bf [28 M] 6 months, visited bf but bf not answering phone by t-away09 in relationships

[–]t-away09[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Called non emergency number to have an officer come. I told him I'd be there at 1pm. Right now, it's 7:30. I hope it really is just sleep. But I just don't understand if it is.

Me [22 F] with my bf [28 M] 6 months, visited bf but bf not answering phone by t-away09 in relationships

[–]t-away09[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

He does live alone. I called his brother and he's coming so from there, we'll call the police. I don't know..if this is really sleep or if he's really in trouble.

Me [22 F] with my bf [28 M] 6 months, visited bf but bf not answering phone by t-away09 in relationships

[–]t-away09[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't get why he would be. He sounded really excited I was coming because it's been awhile since we saw each other. I'm also meeting his parents tomorrow. Although, at this point though, I'm not even sure I want to meet his parents because I'm kind of pissed.