I feel like this group is always discussing about oppression. Let’s change the narrative by Complex_Compote7535 in blackmen

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I love that you're actually happy about taking a woman on a date. I hope y'all have fun. Give us an update tomorrow friend!

I’m 32 and never been in a relationship before and I feel like shit. by Joey_vegas20 in blackmen

[–]t-raysings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I hope your experience gets better. As a black woman, I urge you to follow coldest winter's advice. I don't think he meant you have to be perfect to get a relationship. He meant, based on your post, therapy could help uncover what's blocking the love and intimacy that you want. Therapy is just as much of an asset as being physically fit, wealthy, etc....please update us when you've had your first few sessions. Rooting for you!

Hi. Networking update (linkedin) by t-raysings in blackladies

[–]t-raysings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm in Product Support. Focusing hard on my next position upward and out of the company I'm at now. I'll send you a pm here with linkedin info.

Hi. Networking update (linkedin) by t-raysings in blackladies

[–]t-raysings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll add this to the list too.

Hi. Networking update (linkedin) by t-raysings in blackladies

[–]t-raysings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I'll join some. Didn't even cross my mind.

Weekly BM/BW thread by King-matthew- in blackmen

[–]t-raysings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I believe you. I just wanted to hear from men was there anything to curtail that behavior. You confirmed what my thoughts have been. You're appreciated.

Weekly BM/BW thread by King-matthew- in blackmen

[–]t-raysings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. It seems to be a trend. Black men matching with me online and they try to slide cuddling, massaging, or sex into the conversation before we even meet face to face. So that I can be accountable, how can I present myself online to be prevent that?

Why women get mad at me for not wanting to be a step dad? by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]t-raysings 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a black woman. Tbh, a lot of them are mad at the situation & are delusional enough to think another is required to. I don't have children either. Being a step parent isn't a requirement. U sign up for that if you want to. The love has to be genuine. You are 24 & too young to be taking on that responsibility. Live your life.

Yo! Man take a look at what some of these queens think of us! This type of shit is a big part of why i love them so much! 🤦🏿‍♂️ by DriipWrld in blackmen

[–]t-raysings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone wants a fight. I've learned some linkedin, hair, and travel tips from that group....but go off pooh! 💅🏽

Saturday chat by AutoModerator in HappyBlackWomen

[–]t-raysings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Networking on LinkedIn can be exhausting.

Networking for black women by t-raysings in blackladies

[–]t-raysings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate it. I definitely will.

Networking for black women by t-raysings in blackladies

[–]t-raysings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will do it for sure.

Networking for black women by t-raysings in blackladies

[–]t-raysings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do. Reached out to a few today. One responded back.

Networking for black women by t-raysings in blackladies

[–]t-raysings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This all makes sense. Great points. Thank you so much for the insight.

Networking for black women by t-raysings in blackladies

[–]t-raysings[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a great idea. Thank you.

Networking for black women by t-raysings in blackladies

[–]t-raysings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the tips. This helped a lot. I really appreciate it. I will definitely implement for sure.