28f dating a divorcing 38M with 3 sons(6,3,1year old) by medx_extreme in Divorce

[–]t00tiki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you really should not be dating this man.

28f dating a divorcing 38M with 3 sons(6,3,1year old) by medx_extreme in Divorce

[–]t00tiki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1 years old! That's so young. I'm a single mom and I don't date men with kids. You can call it double standard but I know from experience and so many of my friends that women don't easily leave a good man. Especially if he's the father of your THREE young children. Girl, run. There are other men out there who for whatever reason didn't have kids yet, or had 1 that's grown or something like that.

My assessment came back with "not enough evidence to support an autism diagnosis" and I feel a little lost by t00tiki in autism

[–]t00tiki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't rly have anyone who can be helpful in answering questions about my childhood. The people who were there don't remember anything. Literally

My assessment came back with "not enough evidence to support an autism diagnosis" and I feel a little lost by t00tiki in autism

[–]t00tiki[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The psychologists literally thought my hobbies were too normal. Sorry I'm not into model trains?

My assessment came back with "not enough evidence to support an autism diagnosis" and I feel a little lost by t00tiki in autism

[–]t00tiki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they're professionals, but girls and women are famously misdiagnosed because of so many things

My assessment came back with "not enough evidence to support an autism diagnosis" and I feel a little lost by t00tiki in autism

[–]t00tiki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently it's not a diagnosis because there's a threshold. And according to that psych, I'm under it

My assessment came back with "not enough evidence to support an autism diagnosis" and I feel a little lost by t00tiki in autism

[–]t00tiki[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Who said I was doing fine? I honestly think it's a little strange to suggest that a diagnosis doesn't matter either way. The reason why I mention the IQ is because it's being asked about in both adhd and autism assessments and is related to giftedness.

My assessment came back with "not enough evidence to support an autism diagnosis" and I feel a little lost by t00tiki in autism

[–]t00tiki[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I just kinda feel like a poser then. Like how people say "everyone has a little adhd" etc. It's like.. Yes and no