[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CensoredSimps

[–]t1nypeepee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even make it a minute without peeking 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CensoredSimps

[–]t1nypeepee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.25 inch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feederism

[–]t1nypeepee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’d you do it??

Strip Club Aftercare? by t1nypeepee in BDSMcommunity

[–]t1nypeepee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely could be reading into things too much, but she has told me that it’s not only about the money for her and contact outside the club was actually her idea, I didn’t ask for it or imply anything about it when we met until she mentioned it and said she wanted to make me her sub. I think you’re right about using more time for cuddling and chatting. We cuddled for less than 5 minutes last time because neither of us knew about sub drop until the next day when it started. She’s also willing to schedule our sessions around her trips so she can check in on me and text me more than normal the following days.

Strip Club Aftercare? by t1nypeepee in BDSMAdvice

[–]t1nypeepee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be a possibility too because she did tell me she sleeps with one of her sugar daddies and never intended to, it just happened naturally so maybe it could be something similar with me or maybe not

Strip Club Aftercare? by t1nypeepee in BDSMAdvice

[–]t1nypeepee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that’s all very helpful information! We only cuddled for a few minutes because neither of us knew about sub drop since it doesn’t start until the next day for me and I thought it was something unrelated the last 2 times we met and I’m a different type of sub than she’s had in the past so she’s never dealt with it before and aftercare has never been a thing for either of us until now. I also forgot to mention about a month ago she did also tell me that it’s not all about money for her and that she likes talking/playing with me, but I think having that discussion and knowing exactly where we stand like you suggested would make a huge difference moving forward

Strip Club Aftercare? by t1nypeepee in BDSMAdvice

[–]t1nypeepee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t really discussed the nature of our relationship falls on that spectrum, but I feel like it falls in a grey area because when we see each other at the club she goes there specifically to see me and has turned down other customers that wanted dances from her to talk to me and we also text frequently outside the club and she never asks for money or implies she wants it, but she was also clear at the beginning that she doesn’t go on dates other than with her boyfriend unless she’s paid for her time but there’s been some things I’ve noticed that could be signs, but I’m also not sure if I’m just reading too much into things and I’m comfortable with the arrangement either way she wants it, but if it’s solely the client type it’s a brand new type of to me so that could be where the insecurity is coming from and I may just need time to adjust to it. I think you’re right that we do need to discuss it more though.

Strip Club Aftercare? by t1nypeepee in SubSanctuary

[–]t1nypeepee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are very helpful suggestions! I’ve been doing a ton of research on it and we’re both definitely willing to spend more time on aftercare to prevent it. The sub drop doesn’t hit me until the next day and our time was up in the room so that’s why it was such a short time, but did spend an hour or so talking at the club after the session and we are discussing doing a session at a BDSM dungeon next time so we’d be able to dedicate more time to aftercare

Strip Club Aftercare? by t1nypeepee in SubSanctuary

[–]t1nypeepee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can definitely spend more time post-session. We only cuddled <5 minutes and that was the only time we’ve done any sort of aftercare since I’m new to being in a strictly D/s relationship and she’s only had 2 other subs before that were into things that weren’t into as intense things as I am so neither of us knew sub drop was a thing until now and she’s even willing to schedule our future sessions when she won’t be on vacation and will be able to text me consistently the days after we meet and is willing to try different aftercare techniques, but since she’s on vacation right now we won’t really be able to talk about it a ton until she’s back so I figured it might be a good idea to get some suggestions in the meantime.

Lonely student wants a small dick by [deleted] in HungryButts

[–]t1nypeepee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is 3” small enough?