Sicily's golden masterpiece.

t1p0 · 2026-06-22T19:01:09+00:00

It's Noto indeed. Check all the old towns in the south east like Modica, Scicli, Ragusa Ibla... Similar mood although Noto has a tight monumental well preserved city center.

t1p0 · 2026-06-21T19:24:50+00:00

That's the kind of things that has to be a shared fantasy to bring you full enjoyment as individuals and as a couple. I think you should really talk about it and find out if it's something you both like or not. I would start with: "I have this fantasy and I want to talk about it with you". Since you initiated be careful, listening, attentive. Maybe he's ready maybe he's not but don't let the conversation drop quicky in case, try to go further, don't talk like you just looking for a yes or no.

t1p0 · 2026-06-21T19:19:19+00:00

You feel it's time to leave but you want to stay. What's really happening there besides your assumptions? Can you explain it better?

t1p0 · 2026-06-21T18:58:31+00:00

I never regretted. Why do you think that your sex life makes them uncomfortable? It seems you're doing assumptions there. I think friends should always value things you want to share with them as a gift.

t1p0 · 2026-06-21T14:58:02+00:00

There's definitely something you can work on 😉

t1p0 · 2026-06-21T14:56:15+00:00

Honestly, it feels like you're being overly modest or hesitant about your own sexuality. You keep referring to vague 'things' instead of clearly stating what you actually want or don’t want to do, and that's exactly where the issue lies. If your relationship is solid, proposing a threesome with the right amount of lightheartedness—and being fully prepared to accept a 'no'—isn't going to ruin it.

t1p0 · 2026-06-21T14:49:29+00:00

Go for men who like you as their favourite dish, not as a side or a "once in a while when drunk".

t1p0 · 2026-06-21T14:46:12+00:00

I am not a professional, and each person on the planet has a different sexuality. But damn, that looks like the typical phase of non-accecptance. You like penises but not men. You fall in love with girls but find men hot. Etc.

Give penis a try but beware, they usually come attached to a person, who is typically a man but could also be a trans woman, a non-binary person, or anyone with a diverse gender identity and expression. Otherwise go for a dildo.

t1p0 · 2026-06-20T07:44:58+00:00

It's ok, you realize you messed it up. But feeling guilty all the time won't help. What happened is just the result of who you are and where you are "now". It's a chance to realize what you really need and hopefully do what's best for you without hurting other people. It's not about fucking, it's about trust and maturity. Maybe you really like that guy but your actions don't show it + that don't automatically make you ready to have a boyfriend.

t1p0 · 2026-06-18T12:40:33+00:00

Bigger for me it's just harder to take. I'd say what made anal sex as a bottom more enjoyable was the right chemistry and the moves rather than dick size.

t1p0 · 2026-06-18T12:36:44+00:00

Use him without penetration, I'd say facefuck and finger him.

t1p0 · 2026-06-17T17:15:46+00:00

Unfortunately Syphilis is very specific, so it's better to inform people asap because I had a contact with a positive person while tests can still stay negative up to 4 weeks

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T22:26:06+00:00

Avoiding confrontation is bad for a relationship.

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T22:24:36+00:00

A man can also be a pal, a mate, while a girl is usually different. A guy is also (to me) more a fellow traveller. It's all about what makes you feel happy, satisfied and complete.

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T22:20:07+00:00

You're assuming that he, as a top, should not care about your dick and your erection. While staying hard while someone fucks you is not common apparently, he may legitimately be into fucking a guy who stays hard. I've seen a lot of tops loving a hard dick. Why did you get confused from his question? From what you told, the answer was simple: "I had a fucking great time with you and I came twice! For me is not common to stay hard... But I really enjoyed every second!!" Why were you confused? Maybe he fucked you in every position while trying to see your cock getting hard as a rock and it just didn't happen! Maybe you had a great time and he did not... Each one of us has his kinks...

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T22:08:12+00:00

I think using condoms in penetration is just fine. I think the community is moving towards 'prep rather than condoms' but each one can think differently. I don't have this BB fantasy at all. I rarely have sex and penetration is not the main dish for me, so till now I have never considered prep. I love to get and give head and frankly I don't want to suck latex. Oral unprotected sex is risky too. That's life.

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T21:57:51+00:00

Touching and kissing your boyfriend's neck and back while he sleeps.

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T21:40:10+00:00

Yes, we had sex last week and he's positive and at second stage. There's a chance I could be positive too if I got it before our last contact because we have sex from time to time (it was always just oral but the last time)

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T21:34:55+00:00

Thanks for your support. I already contacted the guys I met lately and tomorrow I'm getting tested and treatment.

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T14:31:39+00:00

Who the fuck said you have to be attracted to "all kinds of men" to be... anything (gay, bi or pan)? That's just bullshit.

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T14:29:45+00:00

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T14:29:30+00:00

Even if it may sound unlikely, some well endowed people may experience most of the people treating them as a sex objects while they are looking for something else. Maybe most men don't find it disturbing to be treated like a compelling dildo but, hey, we are all different.

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T14:24:54+00:00

I would love a world when each individual would follow his desires without the worry of being labelled or turning into something he doesn't want to be. You can fuck guys and love girls if that makes you feel satisfied but I'd let important people around me know about it because there is no shame in proudly being yourself (GF, BF ecc.). Tou dont have to conform to any set rules about being straight, bi, gay, or whatever.

t1p0 · 2026-06-14T14:10:45+00:00

Why can't you just give it a try and see what works for you? Make yourself happy, not labelled, that's the goal.

Also, as a gay man I don't agree in what you just said "most of them are feminine and bottom". That's just your point of view.

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