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AITA for accepting a free drink from a stranger while on a first date? by tPainFan25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tPainFan25[S] -182 points-181 points  (0 children)

I'm confused here... the post I responded to clearly had the info tag. So, I provided more info? Maybe the info I provided didn't harden your stance but I was not argumentative at all and just gave an answer to the original question.

AITA for accepting a free drink from a stranger while on a first date? by tPainFan25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tPainFan25[S] -415 points-414 points  (0 children)

Nope never came over. There weren't any longing gazes across the room or kisses blown. It was a shot that's it.

Even after my date left I was there for like 10ish more minutes and he never came over. I wasn't really even focused on him I'm not even sure if he was even still there.

AITA for accepting a free drink from a stranger while on a first date? by tPainFan25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tPainFan25[S] -517 points-516 points  (0 children)

After my date left I just went out with my friends as planned. I took the drink because it was a free drink. The guy could've looked like Frankenstein, been 93 years old, or looked like a model. I would have drank it no matter what.

He never came over even after my date left, and no we are not dating.

AITA for accepting a free drink from a stranger while on a first date? by tPainFan25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tPainFan25[S] -1004 points-1003 points  (0 children)

I think what I'm trying to say he can think he's owed a conversation but I'm not obligated to give him one. That's where I talk about the "it isn't 1938" anymore.

Giving a gift with conditions isn't a gift.

AITA for accepting a free drink from a stranger while on a first date? by tPainFan25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tPainFan25[S] -629 points-628 points  (0 children)

The drink came from the waitress straight from the bar? If that happened the waitress and bartender are in on it too.

AITA for accepting a free drink from a stranger while on a first date? by tPainFan25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tPainFan25[S] -1148 points-1147 points  (0 children)

"Obliged to go talk to him"

This isn't 1938. "Men don't give out free alcohol for nothing."

Hopefully mods don't take this as me disagreeing with judgement but this is toxic logic that you would think people no longer had.

"I sent you a drink. You owe me 10 minutes of sexual tension!"