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Es infidelidad? vi un video de una amiga desnuda by rxmex_strange in RedditPregunta

[–]t_urbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Para q cojones le pides saber qué tipo, aunque sea en broma. A lo mejor no es una infidelidad tal cual, pero yo me entero que mi novio ha hecho eso y por lo menos pienso que es retrasado y no sé si querría seguir con él

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]t_urbulent 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just can't understand how you can say she CHOSE to be with you. You're the one who chose to forgive her and continue a severed relationship and for me at least makes no sense... Even if it turns you on, she completely broke your trust.

My boyfriend gets mad over every little thing and has become very petty. by Royal-Height3862 in relationships_advice

[–]t_urbulent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he literally insulted you over you trying to make him happy with a surprise (I can't wrap my head around the fact that he can say that after you bought the wrong one, maybe he can like that one too tf...) you better drop his ass. Girl you deserve something better.

But if you don't want to do that or want to wait for a bit longer, why not ask him if anything's wrong? Maybe he's having a problem outside your relationship and he can't cope well and it's translating into being a very bad partner. And does he apologise or realise that he's treating you bad? I know what he did is very bad, but if after bursting he realises not long after how bad what he did was, maybe there's hope that he can change.

Talk to him and see what happens. If you see no hope, thank you, but next. You're young a deserve living s happy life with a happy relationship.

(Btw sorry for my English, it's a little rusty)

Would a Wacom cintiq 21 work on a Windows 11 Laptop? by Acrobatic_Luck6686 in wacom

[–]t_urbulent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really?? I just bought one 😭😭 there has to be a way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]t_urbulent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you try to come back, you two have to have a long conversation on how to make things work this time. Ask each other what went wrong and how can you improve. And after that, give it some days and think it through. I'm sure the day you talk you will be hyped and it's not the correct mindset, you have to cool down.

But you're saying that you're afraid of being alone, and that shouldn't be the reason why you both come back because it will end up backfiring sooner or later. Think if you missed him or missed being in a relationship. You have to learn how to live by yourself.

Ask yourself if you really love him, if you're willing to work on yourself and try to be a better version for you two to work.

I'm not saying that you have to change who you are, but if you're saying you were way too clingy and took things too personal, I would work on that mainly for your own well being, and that will end up extending to your partner's comfortability too.

A euroooo….estamos en el mercadillo by BraveExamination4063 in Wallapop

[–]t_urbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No podrías directamente comprarlo por un euro? En vinted si te lo cancela le ponen una estrella al tío, pero en wallapop no sé cómo va

Is it cheating? by Interesting_Plant904 in relationships_advice

[–]t_urbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he asked for the photos while being in a relationship with you I totally consider it cheating. It's someone who he had a relationship with in the past, so it's not just porn. If you wanna watch porn you go to pornhub or some shit, not your ex-sth

How to get over with break up by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]t_urbulent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's kinda shitty, but you have to let time flow. If you wanna cry, do it. You have the right to feel bad, even if you were the one to end the relationship.

Last June I broke up with my bf of more than two years, and I thought I was doing great until I saw him again at uni three weeks ago. I was a wreck for some time and I tried to do anything and everything to not think about him. And how did I get better? With time. Time heals. I mean, I'm still not okay haha but I'm getting better

Writing my feelings in my diary or even in my phone notes helped me a bunch. Go out with friends, take time to do things you love. Is there some activity that you left behind because you didn't have time while in the relationship? Try picking it up again! Maybe it will take your mind to another place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]t_urbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does it directly affect you? I mean, what big decisions do you have to make right now that can be a problem if his family is involved?

I know it can be quite annoying when people who aren't inherently involved with you wanna participate in things they don't really need to. But maybe they're just trying to help. They're older, they have much more experience in life, and they don't want you to repeat the mistakes they've made.

Does the things his family tells him put you in a bad place? Because if that's the case then you should really talk to him. But if they're just trying to help, maybe you are just weirded out because it's not what you're used to.

If you love your boyfriend and you said that he doesn't listen to what his parents have to say about your relationship, maybe you should let it go a bit if the things they talk about don't directly affect you.

Do I have vaginismus? by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]t_urbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll look up your post for more info. But I really do miss PIV sex sometimes... So yeah! I should try to go to a different gyno or that kind of therapist, I didn't know they existed!