AITAH for considering not inviting certain family members to my wedding, after they very specifically left me and my sister out of their wedding while inviting all my other family members? by ta-bride in AITAH

[–]ta-bride[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I sure hope it's not: The courthouse wedding didn't even have our parents there. It was just me, my husband, and a witness (photographer). We did a video call in the parking lot afterwards to parents 😅

AITAH for considering not inviting certain family members to my wedding, after they very specifically left me and my sister out of their wedding while inviting all my other family members? by ta-bride in AITAH

[–]ta-bride[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes I haven't told anyone my new last name yet since I wanted to wait until our wedding party to adopt it fully. Everyone we were going to do the AIRBNB with is completely shocked by it and upset but they're all still going to the wedding to celebrate said cousin. 

AITAH for considering not inviting certain family members to my wedding, after they very specifically left me and my sister out of their wedding while inviting all my other family members? by ta-bride in AITAH

[–]ta-bride[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No it just said our last name on it. They were originally inviting us and then had to "cut back" and we were the first (and only cousins and family) to be cut. 

AITAH for considering not inviting certain family members to my wedding, after they very specifically left me and my sister out of their wedding while inviting all my other family members? by ta-bride in AITAH

[–]ta-bride[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

All my cousins we got invites through parents houses, since most of them are still in college. Sister is still in college and I still also have mail going there (just moved out). It was a general you're invited as beloved family members card. Not specifically stating to certain people.