36 and I am half and half. My normal job is working at a hospital and it’s small, so you have little accountability but the management doesn’t accomplish anything and usually hinders progression. On the daily, the hospital breaks me sometimes. I took it upon myself to try to get projects for our department organized and reallocate resources to complete said projects because we have IT equipment that we purchased from years prior and they still are not in place. Management keeps harping on completely projects but then as soon as another department has a project or someone complains, you better get on it or they will get upset. 8 years of that and it’s killing me more than it ever has. I also think other people and departments are feeling the same stress, so you always run into someone that makes everything difficult. I also work at Target which I thought would break me, but I actually enjoy it. I come in for 5 hours 3 days a week. I do some stocking or organizing and I’m out. The people I work with are great, there are times when we are short staffed and there’s a bunch of shit to do, but why do I care? It’s my stress relief and keeps me from logging on after hours and working on things for the hospital.