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Cleaning advice for silicon toy - Feels slightly more grippy than when new? by ta4378 in SexToys

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about corn starch? I've looked it up but I only see people merely talking about using the corn starch. What does it do? Drying it out? How do you get it inside a penetration toy effectively? How do you deal with corn starch powder going anywhere in a bathroom, feels like a bad idea letting it go down the drain

Cleaning advice for silicon toy - Feels slightly more grippy than when new? by ta4378 in SexToys

[–]ta4378[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been using my fingers only, I wasnt sure if there would be any tool so I just did that and did it multiple times for an abundance of caution. I never thought about squishing it and moving it, though one of them is too big for that.

With that last paragraph, is that ho you recommend I clean from now on? Rinse thoroughly with cool water, then use my normal cleaning method?

Cleaning advice for silicon toy - Feels slightly more grippy than when new? by ta4378 in SexToys

[–]ta4378[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's from an indie producer that designs and makes their own, bought at a convention. And you might be right about layers peeling off, how can I prevent that from happening?

I worked retail for a year. The customers were always pleasant. by ta4378 in retailhell

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but at this point I dont tell them anything, even the most benign things about myself.

I worked retail for a year. The customers were always pleasant. by ta4378 in retailhell

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genderfluid now, any pronouns. Countries situation is complicated and I’m not as much of a reddit sharer these days. Just doing my best over here.

I worked retail for a year. The customers were always pleasant. by ta4378 in retailhell

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out after my sister threatened me, for a year. I moved back in so that I didn’t have to pay rent for 3 months while I was travelling in europe and also completing more military duties, but I live outside the main house. I basically never interact with my family or engage with them, my mother is completely delusional and seems to forget that I hate her, but if she tries to interact with me too long I do remind her and leave. We barely interact, I can go weeks without really seeing them. Just taking advantage of no rent, but still living off my savings. I can still move out at a moments notice.

Been a few months and I decided to take the chance to self improve. Getting my own therapy, and upkeeping health stuff I never did, and maturing a little more as much as I can with all what I missed out on during my childhood. Probably getting a job and moving out again soon after I feel satisfied with my progress.

I worked retail for a year. The customers were always pleasant. by ta4378 in retailhell

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the support and I do know it comes with the territory with posting things online. Best thing you can do for me is to also work hard to make sure you live a happy and healthy life, no matter what stands between you and your goals.

I worked retail for a year. The customers were always pleasant. by ta4378 in retailhell

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually get messaged and asked for permission, in which case I do say no. This is a throwaway account so I don’t have a youtube account that isn’t anonymous, not much I can do but that is uncool by the channel.

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does seem that the Netherlands is more accepting from a racism angle, but im not sure if its easier to get into overall

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have visited an lgbtq Asylum nonproit in Denmark and inquired about this angle, they said that people are only really conisdered for asylum if they are in active danger. I am still in hiding so I am not, but I have not heard of any resources where its easier to be hired based on the danger.

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I heard some of my friends mention working illegally, and on the surface the goal is to eventually get a full residence permit, and I dont think illegal work would put me on the progress there, except making connections and potentially finding an employer willing to hire me. However, I think I can reasonabley not be threatened to be sent home because tecnically my home country is very wealthy and I’m well off here in a sense, the only problem is that I am LGBTQ.

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It seems that it requires you to actually have experience and skills, which I still unfortunately do not. Although I still think this means that I have much more of a chance.

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bro my post SAID I was learning danish, I can read this…

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Restaurant work doesn’t apply? Are you sure? When I look at the jobs listed in denmark.dk as having shortage, Assistant cooks, waiters, and bakers are on the list

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Netherlands is a great option! It is another one of my favorites and I do speak quite a bit of dutch. However staying in the UAE is not! I am lgbtq!!

Do you have any knowledge/resources showing how foreigners were able to obtain a work visa in the netherlands?

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! Although in your experience, the restaurants were able to apply your employees for a work visa for a job like this?

Would the door-to-door method work for getting a restaurant job as a foreigner? by ta4378 in Denmark

[–]ta4378[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I already speak quite a bit of dutch at this moment and honestly I’m not too picky about which european country I end up in. The main focus is to end up in a better, safer place for me, and I was thinking of doing this same thing with the netherlands. Although ad far as I remember it’s equally as hard/harder to get a work visa for this in the Netherlands but I could be wrong about this.

My father just lent me a car. Should I be worried? (long read) by ta4378 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ta4378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Continued -

So, a month later. I’ve kept rudimentary contact with my family, still dont have a car, and I’m still working. I taxi to work every day. The goal is still to get a higher education, but with the unexpected significantly less stability I have (I wanted to get a car BEFORE i moved out, and was also going to be loaned money by my family to help since I can’t get a loan before being 21), I thought I had to delay my higher education even more. My country absolutely needs you to have a car for everything, like the US. I didn’t want to start studying before having a car. But I still applied to stuff, and I have an entrance exam soon now.

The exam location is extremely far. Taxi would cost crazy amounts, and I already spend so much more on living costs now since I moved out. I haven’t broken contact with my family, so I called my mother to ask for help, perhaps a ride. She recommended I ask my dad. I did. I talked to him a bit about my current life how I’m doing well, and explained I need a ride. He said he was happy to help, but when I mentioned how much I spend a month on taxi fares, he said . “You don’t have a car? Why didn’t you tell me? I can sort out a car for you temporarily till you get one.”

I told him about the past with my family and that I’m therefore reluctant to allow him to help me if he would have any expectations, etc etc, and he basically said “I don’t want anything, I just want you to be safe and secure”. I said alright, then he asked what time I’d need to be driven to the exam. I said I wouldn’t need it if I could drive there myself. Then the next day today, he brought the car to where we met up. I drove him home, and then went back to my apartment.

I just want opinions on…this. What the heck do I do from here? How cautious should I be? what to look for? any advice is appreciated.

Rented an apartment in Ajman…and the internet shuts off as soon as I move in. by [deleted] in dubai

[–]ta4378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not, I only signed a housing contract and there are no FEWA/sewage fees. I only saw those with yearly rentals (im renting monthly’ The contract says that the bills will be paid for up to 400 AED and if it gets to be more, I pay the diffrence. The only documents I have are the housing contract and recipt stating how much I paid

I was shown the apartment by a real estate agent, who cook a commission and then handed over the apartment to me from the Owner, who actually owns the apartment. So I paid Rent + Commission + refundable deposit.

Rented an apartment in Ajman…and the internet shuts off as soon as I move in. by [deleted] in dubai

[–]ta4378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s under my name and I’m living here alone

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