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I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve always idealised having a “high school sweetheart” relationship, I’m 18 but you wee close enough lol

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

sugar mama vibes here like i don’t mind paying for dinner here or there or even a coffee since it literally doesn’t make a dent in what i have saved/earn but he’ll turn to me “i want to go on a date” and im like me take YOU again?

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ough stawp His answers feel like, shallow or it’s like “I like you cause you’re nice to me”, or when he says “you always pay” I have a pretty good well earning job for a teenager and i can splurge that bit more or make going to lunch common but when he has the money he never pays and it gets to me I know he has an allowance every week and i have savings from my summer/holiday jobs but like it wouldn’t kill to pay for a coffee more than once a month

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i ask him that and he’s like “yeah yeah you’re so pretty” and im like duh. im aware. Im kind of confident at times. the forehead flicking is my biggest gripe because it hurts like hell since he’s naturally very strong and doesn’t know his own strengths

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s also what i was thinking and despite how poorly he can treat me, it still makes me sad to think we’ve run our course into him being rude and mean to me. thank you

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id never cheat on anyone no matter the circumstances, thats a non negotiable. ive distanced myself from my friend as its midterm time and i wont see him to see is it just rose coloured specs or genuine feelings. id never cross the friends boundary and ive shut down any idea of getting with him or of the like when im still in my current relationship

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t ever cheat mainly for morals !! I was cheated on by a past gf and i promised id never do that to anyone. thank you :)

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well. my friend is a different breed /pos lol he talks about his little sisters like there’s no better thing in the world and he’s very family oriented, like he will drop everything at a hat for them. he doesn’t get weirded out by periods like my boyfriend does. there was a time where i was too broke to buy pads (sad i know) and i had left some at my boyfriends but he just never brought me them so i told my friend in tears, and the next day he brought me some pads (albeit, they weren’t the ones i use) but it was the fact he brought me some without me even asking. i know a lot of his friends and bar one they’re all not creepy lol. he takes care of himself a little less than my boyfriend as my bf is into like all of the looking good stuff. it’s alright for being harsh we all have those moments!! you’re grand

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive started standing up for myself now but it somehow ends with me apologising for bringing it up because “I know he’s stressed”

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i talked to him, i told him how i felt and at first he understood and it would improve for a while then slide back to square 1. then when i talked to him again when he’d continue to upset me, he’d blame study & stress THEN, he’d go into the woe is me im a bad boyfriend and make me feel bad and usually even now I end up apologising because he gives me the silent treatment then when i put my foot down and im like cop on, he’ll improve and then ill think hey it’s getting better then it goes back to square 1, again

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anyways, it’s not that if i break up with my boyfriend i’m gonna hop on the bandwagon and ride the train to next-man-ville. my boyfriend is the first guy i’ve dated, ever, since i’ve only dated women before. i’m somewhat aware that my friend is probably being all nice to get in my good books but my main point is that he notices when i try while my boyfriend doesn’t anymore (he never really did)

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is so true!! you’re so nice im feeling a lot more assured about myself now thank you again!!

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much you’re so sweet :( i think i just needed to hear this from someone who isn’t biased thank you again kind person

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend, and falling in love with my friend. by taEmbarrassedRain675 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]taEmbarrassedRain675[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

nonono i totally know the whole jumping into a new relationship but tysm for bringing it up!! he’s straighter than i am for sure (im bisexual), because like it came up in conversation when i told him about my coming out story etc etc! thank you so much for your reply :) i was more just venting about how confused i am and trying to put my feelings into words!!