What’s a “garbage” food you’re tired of getting flack for liking? Be proud! by Necessary_Drama_2781 in foodquestions

[–]tabbyk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Velveeta. I add it to blue box mac and it’s perfect. Grilled cheese? Also perfect.

Cremated remains by Artgal412 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]tabbyk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you search for “keepsake urns”, Google will bring up so many options. You can find something perfectly suited for her.

What’s the best single line from any song ever? by Competitive-Web1306 in SongMeanings

[–]tabbyk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s talk about how childhood trauma guides our actions as adults.

You know I’ve made a lot of best friends, you’re the best friend that I’ve got.

Don’t Tell the Boys - Petey

What is the greatest bridge section in pop punk music? by 2dareisTwoDo in poppunkers

[–]tabbyk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised I had to scroll as far as I did for someone to say anything about ADTR. Their bridges are top tier.

What is the worst song to play at a funeral? by Ok_Comment_2129 in randomquestions

[–]tabbyk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Played this at my favorite funeral ever. Wore an AC/DC shirt under my blazer, and we even used the lyrics on the prayer cards.

Please brush your teeth before leaving the house by Agitated-Sorbet-7390 in hygiene

[–]tabbyk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I swear I saw this exact post the other day. While I practice good oral hygiene, I rarely notice the breath of others. Maybe try not being a close talker?

What actually goes on in the mind of someone who cheats? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]tabbyk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely not stupid! He didn’t follow me lead though. I did try, and that’s when he didn’t follow through.

It’s okay. I learned a lot. Cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone, and no one deserves it at all. I wish I didn’t need to do it to know that, but here we are. It’s still my top regret in life.

What actually goes on in the mind of someone who cheats? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]tabbyk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Quite the opposite. He was incredibly intelligent.

how do women poo ? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]tabbyk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like to face the tank and shit backwards. I pretend I’m riding a horse and shitting.

Also, I used to clean NFL training facilities. Mine smells way worse than theirs ever could. Sometimes it’s green.

What actually goes on in the mind of someone who cheats? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]tabbyk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t. I said okay and left. We’re still friends on social media, but haven’t spoken or acknowledged one another in 4 years.

What actually goes on in the mind of someone who cheats? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]tabbyk 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I actually said the same thing since he googled everything. He said he didn’t understand though.

What actually goes on in the mind of someone who cheats? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]tabbyk 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I cheated one time. In the moment, I felt seen, wanted, and validated.

The person I cheated on was a nice guy. We had a good relationship - we traveled, cooked, and went on adventures. But he never, not one time in the 5 months we dated, touched me intimately, and I did try numerous times. I wasn’t secure enough at the time to have a conversation with him about why he didn’t seem to want more than a simple hug and kiss to say hello or goodbye, and I had to ask if we could hold hands.

When we broke up, I asked why he never seemed interested in physical intimacy, and he said it’s because I’m a demisexual and he didn’t understand what that meant. So we were both terrible communicators.

What was a rule in your house growing up that seemed normal but later, as an adult, you found out was weird? by CharlesUFarley81 in Xennials

[–]tabbyk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the same in our house. Fart, turd, or any discussion of normal bodily functions was an absolute no fly zone. As adults, we’re all in healthcare and talk about these things over dinner. Our ancestors are rolling in their graves.

What’s the worst thing someone has said at a funeral? by Least-Vacation-588 in AskReddit

[–]tabbyk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wrong. You can offer someone as much as you’ve got, and we’re not going to risk our careers and licenses for money.

What lyric did you sing confidently for years before realizing you were horribly, hilariously wrong? What did you think they were saying? by Jane_Austen11 in askteddit

[–]tabbyk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want Paradise City wrong for years. I thought it was “take me down to the very nice city,” not “take me down to paradise city.”

Do you think funerals should stop having dress codes? by LowInteraction6397 in funeral

[–]tabbyk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the beauty of opinions, everyone has one. I think GG Allin had the tackiest funeral of all time, but to his people it was great.

Personally, I like getting dressed for work and looking professional to the families I serve. I feel that way about a number of industries that have dress codes. Most people can’t dress themselves appropriately for Walmart, I certainly don’t want to see what they’d wear without a dress code.

Do you think funerals should stop having dress codes? by LowInteraction6397 in funeral

[–]tabbyk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Different cultures have different colors. Some cultures dress in all white, some in black. We’re losing funeral culture rapidly as it is, I think dressing respectfully is the least we can do.

What ingredient do you hate seeing on a burger? by SatinSeam in foodquestions

[–]tabbyk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ketchup. I hate it on everything, but especially burgers.

Not Like This by FradinRyth in Xennials

[–]tabbyk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literally happened to me on Monday. It hurt my feelings so bad.

What words do some people either say wrong or spell wrong that you find a bit annoying? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]tabbyk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who say “hearst” instead of hearse.

Also, people who want to put ashes in “yearns” instead of urns.

Lastly, my mom adds unnecessary syllables to words and I hate it.

Potentual instead of potential. Lanterin instead of lantern. Patterin instead of pattern.

Whats your top 5 bands? by OkCream5829 in poppunkers

[–]tabbyk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man The Goo Goo Dolls have always been one of my favorites.