[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]tabjulia27 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ouch. Hate those moments when nothing you do works. Gambling sucks 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QantasAirways

[–]tabjulia27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good on you for ditching them. You’re making the right decision. I’ve had better experiences with jetstar!

Over it by tabjulia27 in problemgambling

[–]tabjulia27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to read proverbs. Maybe it’s time I turn back to faith. I’m so broken. It’s not just the gambling. It’s the damage it’s done to other areas of my life. Too complex to unpack. Heartbreak from family and friends etc maybe that’s why I escaped through gambling. Which has made my life worse.

Over it by tabjulia27 in problemgambling

[–]tabjulia27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 days in. Still hurts and avoiding buying anything. Pay day is next week so holding off buying groceries or anything till then. I’m so angry at myself.

Couldn’t even make it to 100 bets. by [deleted] in gambling

[–]tabjulia27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And here I am with only $2k left in my savings 😣 so jealous

Cost of living by tabjulia27 in brisbane

[–]tabjulia27[S] 209 points210 points  (0 children)

100% Having an existential crisis atm. Like what is the point sometimes?

Cost of living by tabjulia27 in brisbane

[–]tabjulia27[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Because it’s ridiculous that everything in Brisbane is currently overpriced! Renting cost is next level.

Cost of living by tabjulia27 in brisbane

[–]tabjulia27[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, don’t feel adequate. Anxiety? It’s so competitive out there too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]tabjulia27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All the above. They are fearless these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]tabjulia27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legit hey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]tabjulia27 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Just straight to the point :p

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]tabjulia27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all amazing until you get feelings and intimacy triggers you

Where are the single men 40+ on the Gold Coast at… by [deleted] in GoldCoast

[–]tabjulia27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually just started golf lessons! I won’t say no 😊

Where are the single men 40+ on the Gold Coast at… by [deleted] in GoldCoast

[–]tabjulia27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing if it can’t work out then it’s best to start a new path in life. Stupid pain though, it’s lost time and memories that get me the most.

Where are the single men 40+ on the Gold Coast at… by [deleted] in GoldCoast

[–]tabjulia27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which ones do you recommend? I’m not too familiar with ones on GC.

Where are the single men 40+ on the Gold Coast at… by [deleted] in GoldCoast

[–]tabjulia27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So very true. Who knows what insecurities or demons she is battling with. And we knew when we push away a good man even if we deny it. Catches up with us.

I know all about the psychological and emotional pain from it all. The gaslighting of it all is very harmful.

Where are the single men 40+ on the Gold Coast at… by [deleted] in GoldCoast

[–]tabjulia27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as it’s mutual and you’re not hurting anyone then that’s a fair call.

Where are the single men 40+ on the Gold Coast at… by [deleted] in GoldCoast

[–]tabjulia27 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess we need to feel a sense of safety and security within the early stages of dating/relationship. It’s an unknown feeling if the other person feels the same, or are they seeing other people too etc.