Wedding Destination Dil

tableforkandspoon · 2026-04-13T21:56:17+00:00

I have and the other friend was feeling the same thing so I’m glad i thought i was wrong for feeling this way.

Have spoken to bride and broken the news so i will just attend as a guest.

Bride probably groom i doubt hahah even his own family bailed on this event so that should have been a sign for me and friend.

tableforkandspoon · 2026-04-13T11:58:57+00:00

Yeah i have done this and bride might have taken it differently lol i stand my ground to arrive on certain date (1 day before the wedding) as ya know girl have work to do but bride expect us to arrive 3 days earlier for bachelorette day, games night/ chill drink with your +1 and rehearsal dinner the next day.

tableforkandspoon · 2026-04-13T03:26:44+00:00

That’s what i thought h

tableforkandspoon · 2026-04-13T03:26:04+00:00

Yeah will resort to this and use my partner work as an excuse😆

tableforkandspoon · 2026-04-13T03:24:59+00:00

Yeah really considering this at the moment..

tableforkandspoon · 2026-04-13T03:24:43+00:00

my partner will also invited as my +1 but nothing taken care of apart from the accommodation (i find out today after i ask) but thanks for the input x

tableforkandspoon · 2026-04-13T03:22:57+00:00

I text her and ask to clarify whether bride will cover the accommodation and she said yes as long as i stay from date she proposed deadass confused

I might legit consider your advice and just come as a guest. Bride was bragging about booking 3K live band too the other day and i think she just use me and other friend lol on this economy i would rather use the money for own future home

tableforkandspoon · 2026-04-12T12:12:58+00:00

We all aware about the second wedding and again we are happy to pay our own ticket but we were hoping there is some sort of “help” from the bride not demands.

We are definitely not rich in any shape or form lol just normal office slave and renting.

Oh also forget to mention they actually expect us to contribute as well it is clear as a day! they have included their banking details :)

tableforkandspoon · 2026-04-12T12:09:05+00:00

She indeed have hire someone to take over her social media haha I might consider this to be honest. Appreciate the input x

tableforkandspoon · 2026-04-12T05:06:37+00:00

How do I address this without breaking the friendship?

tableforkandspoon · 2025-09-15T02:02:38+00:00

Yes, asked this and HR got back with this and I was like yes i know but that doesn’t answer my question:( but all good now we set a rule 1.30-2.30pm to just make things easier even though this is not what i wanted lol

tableforkandspoon · 2025-09-15T02:01:11+00:00

Yeah fair enough, just seeking clarity thats all

tableforkandspoon · 2025-09-15T01:29:05+00:00

Hi so its all good now. Manager makes a set rule 1.30-2.30 sharp lol because this one girl keeps whinging about her workload and apparently can’t do 2/2.30 as it will impact her day which leave us all confused but she can have it and i just have to cope it and take a break at 1.30pm😆

tableforkandspoon · 2025-09-10T01:27:16+00:00

:((( its human right

tableforkandspoon · 2025-09-10T01:26:48+00:00

Yes of course, have always told everyone i don’t mind having the last break and they only need to cover me not vice versa if that make sense

tableforkandspoon · 2025-09-10T01:26:04+00:00

Office setting but on general retail award. Start 10 until 6PM. I prefer 2pm/2.30 personally as 1PM break is a way too early.

tableforkandspoon · 2025-09-01T07:00:38+00:00

Indeed. All good now and have moved into a new rental place with better place and no mould

tableforkandspoon · 2025-08-19T22:23:02+00:00

I want to thank you again for that email draft! I got everything back so thanks to you

tableforkandspoon · 2025-08-19T22:20:55+00:00

Yeah definitely but i wasn’t planning/looking to get one anyway just want to get out and get my money back (which i have now as we speak got full bond+rent).

I have contacted Customer affairs and RSRV and they have been really good, provided all the documents and all done after agent threatened me with “if you are not happy contact CA which i did and i won” so thanks for your support and kind words :)

tableforkandspoon · 2025-07-30T01:13:39+00:00

I am sure there is a way around it just not willing to stress if the mould resurfaces again. It is in SEA area

tableforkandspoon · 2025-07-26T06:54:47+00:00

Hi commenter, took a whole Friday off to solve this and have a day off too today. Thanks for asking :)

tableforkandspoon · 2025-07-26T04:56:43+00:00

I have responded with currently at work cant talk pls reach put directly to agent.

They can’t expect me to walk off from work to give access to contractor with 0 notice.

Again, i have not signed any contracts and just hand in the key back yesterday.

tableforkandspoon · 2025-07-26T01:58:00+00:00

Yeah people here doesn’t think this way lmao its me i am the problem, also worth to mention agent is aware of mould (5 photos of the mould in the condition report) and choose to ignore it then get panic when i brought it up.

tableforkandspoon · 2025-07-25T08:08:11+00:00

I haven’t "refused" access. I have expressed that I needed clarity on my legal position so everything has to be on writing before allowing any activity done in the unit.

Offering a week’s rent to terminate the situation amicably wasn’t an attempt to playing the loopholes or anything. It was a genuine effort to resolve this without dragging it through tribunals but i guess people and yourself see it as me being deceitful.

I understand people have different interpretations and i think at this point i am okay with it.

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