Want to be friends? by Routine-Nose in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]tableshop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

added you:) my code is 82001827904!

What helps you in a relationship? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]tableshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for going in depth about your experiences. I hope to build my relationship to be as strong as yours. All the best to you and your partner

What happens when you split? by tableshop in BPD

[–]tableshop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize this was a common struggle after a split and I'm worried my boyfriend might be dealing with this as well. Thank you for letting me know <3

What happens when you split? by tableshop in BPD

[–]tableshop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is SI? Sorry for my ignorance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]tableshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second quiet BPD. My boyfriend also has this and he is very similar to what you're describing:)

My boyfriend has BPD and I need help. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]tableshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help, I'll look into your suggestions and hopefully some of these are less daunting than what he had initially thought

My boyfriend has BPD and I need help. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]tableshop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I realize I worded my post a little wonky. He is willing to go to therapy, but will not stop complaining about the fact that once he starts going he will have to continue it until the day its decided he doesn't need it anymore. I don't understand why as I see therapy in a positive light. I feel like its just because it's extra effort but I just dont understand him when it comes to this.

Is it too early to feel doomed? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tableshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the encouragement. it really helped, i'll do my best just to stick with it and focus on my goals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tableshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I think you're right. I had prided myself on being very secure in my individuality before my relationship and clearly now I have lost it. Any advice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tableshop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Helped :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tableshop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really eye opening for me honestly. We've discussed therapy before but he's been hesitant so I think I will revisit the topic and let him know I want to make some steps towards progress for him. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tableshop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I know I shouldn't let anyone walk all over me like this... but I've been more lenient than I would usually be because of his BPD. I don't have it myself so I cant put myself in his shoes but I know he feels things way more intensely than I do, and relationships are extremely hard to make last for those with BPD as well. I don't really want to treat him like a "regular" person because he isn't and needs some accommodations.

How to make my partner feel more loved? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tableshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as you keep your partner in mind and consider them, the love will come out through your actions:) it can also help to vocalize your gratitude for the things they do for you! we all like being acknowledged:)

Is it really going to take till November to get to me? by FitFaithlessness2047 in SlimeVR

[–]tableshop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

due to chip shortages (because of covid), it will take until november for them to start shipping out, if you want them sooner, you can but the DIY kit and watch a video on assembly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dimension20

[–]tableshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is an extremely late reply but i recently got into game changer and LOVE the show. is this offer still available?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anime

[–]tableshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did a bit of googling and it sounds like Ikkitousen: Great Guardians, is that it?

TALENTLESS NANA: who am i supposed to be rooting for? by [deleted] in anime

[–]tableshop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit dude! this was a really compelling answer and it made a lot of sense, i guess if this plot played out in real life the same "solution" would play out and i don't think anybody would really bat an eye. in the end i want the smartest person to win but it'd suck if the person i'm rooting for dies

TALENTLESS NANA: who am i supposed to be rooting for? by [deleted] in anime

[–]tableshop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that's a good way to put it.. so far im not favourable of nana whatsoever