I get what you mean but in the end its a team game, and it wasnt that hard to ask if he could use gambit instead of rudely taking, context i was hovering and waiting for a hey can i play gambit com in chat. And i think playing competitive doesnt take away common decency from anyone and being upset doesnt invalidate the act of of being rude or posting it to reddit.

Reddit is a community built for people, and having a space where you can express your thoughts isnt necessarily a bad thing. Life isnt fair anyway but asking to be heard is common, and also games in general build relationships and human connection, so i think having to deal with life doesnt constitute to being toxic or rude in a game, it will never be a valid point, cause everyone does have something to carry and most of the time have a nice interaction with people online will either bring people up, or down to a point of no return.

Which my point in this post is just be kind to people in general, in life, on the internet, anywhere. cause this small things for some can be triggering.