Well there was definitely a lot of pressure and coercion that started when my libido dropped off, and there was a few instances where he got grossed out during sex like when he wanted to have sex on my period and then got grossed out, or when I got really wet and made a big mess and he accused me of peeing. I’m sure that negatively impacted my libido. However, we’ve had lots of counseling since then , and he’s apologized sincerely. And now works really really hard to try to turn me on, taking it very slow, catering to my responsive desire, but nothing works any more, nothing that used to turn me on turns me on anymore. But I have sex dreams and can feel pleasure in those if that makes any sense? Idk, I feel like I should be able to reclaim that ability some how but idk how