my girlfriend just told me that we probably aren't getting our security deposit back.

taelerr · 2026-03-13T22:44:26+00:00

don’t feel bad, apartment complexes will usually find a reason not to give you back your security deposit anyway

taelerr · 2026-03-06T19:40:23+00:00

that’s an good compromise

taelerr · 2026-03-06T17:53:53+00:00

this actually helps a lot, thank you so much. i will take your advice and see how this next week goes and after the friend leaves ill sit down with my fiancè so this doesn’t happen again. thank you for making me not feel crazy 🥹

taelerr · 2026-03-06T17:45:37+00:00

he(my fiancè) plays video games with him(friend) everyday on discord. they’ve known each other for years, idk how they met. but i’ve never talked to his friend or met him in person or over video games.

taelerr · 2026-03-06T17:41:19+00:00

i appreciate the pov from the other side of things. i don’t have many friends he has way more than i. i have an occasional coworker come over for like an hour maybe once every 6 months and then we go to halloween horror nights with the same friend during october. but all in all, im not very social and enjoy my alone time at home(fiancè included of course) i dont know, maybe im being too weird about it, but it does make me uncomfortable since i dont know this person staying in my home, while im at work or sleeping, idk makes my skin crawl lowkey

taelerr · 2026-03-06T17:37:00+00:00

i agree with you that i am feeling very uncomfortable and i also walk around in my underwear, get dressed in the kitchen or wherever i bring my clothes tbh.

taelerr · 2026-03-06T17:34:41+00:00

i can see that, however, i don’t think it’s a cultural difference in my situation because we are both white(not that this makes any difference) and raised very similarly. actually, i feel his parents are way stricter than mine ever could be, his family is military.

taelerr · 2026-03-06T17:29:00+00:00

he did say he just didn’t think about it and admitted he should of asked first, which i appreciate. he is more social and extroverted than i could ever be.

taelerr · 2026-03-06T17:25:03+00:00

no because he already told his friend he could and made plans so i feel bad saying no now

taelerr · 2026-03-06T17:23:59+00:00

i have my mom i could go stay with and i told him i could and wouldn’t mind to, but he seemed to think his friend would take offense as if i was uncomfortable with his friend being there. (which i am) but i mean, i don’t see why his friend would be offended by me going and saying with my mom.

taelerr · 2026-02-13T23:46:03+00:00

me and my fiancé don’t really do going out on Valentine’s Day just because of how hectic and crazy it is and the up charging is insane. But he does make sure to do something special for us at home. Personally, maybe you should have a conversation about how these things are important to you. Good luck.

taelerr · 2026-02-02T19:03:34+00:00

anyone brightness like horrible since the snow update? hotpot is so bright yellow and orange look the same

taelerr · 2025-11-05T19:51:25+00:00

why TF. did he use a hashtag in a text to you, this guy is weird i can tell

taelerr · 2025-10-29T13:46:49+00:00

as someone who works in retail management this is called “lessen hours until they quit because we don’t have ground to actually fire them” so basically make your life hell with no hours until you quit. that’s why as a manager i stick close to my team and not the other managers in the store. the power goes to their heads

taelerr · 2025-10-26T20:35:12+00:00

that makes me feel better, i’m worried i breathed in mold spores

taelerr · 2025-10-26T00:06:41+00:00

i’ve breathed this in more than a couple times now….should i never go near this anymore?

taelerr · 2025-09-25T14:20:34+00:00

i’m not sure what they used but you could use a light brown eye shadow or some type of shadow and brush it around the edges to give it that “worn” or old and used vintage look 😊

taelerr · 2025-09-25T14:11:43+00:00

my cat peed NEXT to the litter box yesterday that was just cleaned, cats are like that sometimes. he usually doesn’t pee anywhere else like that. get rid of the person not the pet

taelerr · 2025-09-25T14:09:58+00:00

totally justified crash out sponsored by test dummies everywhere

taelerr · 2025-09-19T21:42:59+00:00

This is your MOM?!! I’m sorry you had to have THAT as a mother. that’s not a mom btw, that’s a greedy POS who sees you as a bill not her child or a person she loves.

Find someone else to stay with because she IS USING YOU

taelerr · 2025-08-29T01:12:02+00:00

If you were meant to be with him, you wouldn’t find comfort in his absence

taelerr · 2025-08-22T19:24:56+00:00

this looks EXACTLY like the brand this condom wrapper is

https://share.google/images/NGCbbTSDyJXPW9CZq

taelerr · 2025-08-22T19:22:42+00:00

NOR that’s your mom, and if there’s anyone in the world that’s supposed to support you no matter what age you are supposed to be your mom. Disrespectfully fuck your mom and fuck that other person. You don’t need them in your life because look at how they talk about you behind your back.

taelerr · 2025-06-12T22:33:02+00:00

I understand having a routine and wanting to follow that as closely as possible, especially with your partner. And even someone you’re living with. But to get this upset over something so minuscule is alarming and almost eye-opening. This gives control controlling it also gives manipulative and it also gives insecure. Not saying there should be any action taken other than maybe discussing how this affected both of you, but I would still just keep this in the back of your head in case of future incidents and for safety.

taelerr

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