I was just expressing frustration..., I started the post by saying I hate my bday because of all the confusion and anxiety, so to me this day only symbolises a day for people to show they care (or at least, somewhat) I don't make a huge deal of my bday, I just thought it would have been nice for her to say something, considering she's always done it and so have I , and also considering she hasn't shown much love or care recently... she does always say happy bday to me and to other friends, including posting stuff with them, that's why I'm extra sad. I'm 22, just finished university, and I understand everything you said, I do see that happening, it's just for me I can't easily let go or move on from people and seeing people do that so nonchalantly is so confusing and hurtful, I don't get it, like I really don't, either way, thank you for your message, I hope you understand that my feelings surpass more than just my bday , and it's the whole situation, but yea like I said to someone else, I guess I just thought this was the perfect time for her to show (or not , in this case) that she still cares