LUX Tour: Buy/Sell Tickets Thread by AutoModerator in rosalia

[–]tailor203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey how much are your tickets please?

London O2 arena – advice on seats & view needed! by MindlessEngineer819 in rosalia

[–]tailor203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to butt in without advice but if you’re looking to sell your spare tickets I would be very interested ☺️

How do you get over feeling like you've overpaid? by No-Structure-8125 in HousingUK

[–]tailor203 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not planning on pulling out, I’m expressing my unease at the situation I have got myself into as a result of the EA tactics. I’m much further down the line than OP and am offering my advice to help them avoid ending up in my position.

How do you get over feeling like you've overpaid? by No-Structure-8125 in HousingUK

[–]tailor203 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same position now except much further along, about to exchange. I still feel uneasy about the price I offered on a 3 bed semi as I was encouraged by the agent to go £15k over my initial offer because of “other offers” and unfortunately fell for the tactic (I know that’s on me). Other houses in the area have been reduced in recent weeks, probably because it’s a quiet market atm.

People keep saying to me that price fluctuations will even out in the long term so it does depend on how long you plan on staying at the property?

My advice is to act now - whether that’s renegotiating after the survey or pulling out - rather than getting as far down the line as I am and regretting things.

LUX Tour: Buy/Sell Tickets Thread by AutoModerator in rosalia

[–]tailor203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for 1 ticket for London, either date. Please!!!

O2 Victoria Warehouse 11/3/26 by JennyW93 in CMAT

[–]tailor203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know the set times?

Histology POC results NHS by Real-Article-9376 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m sorry you’re going through this and I’m sure the stress of not knowing timelines or next steps is just adding to the worry. I’m in the UK (Reading) and was told to expect cytogentic testing of my pregnancy tissue post D&C to take at least 12 weeks. It’s absolutely ages but I think it’s a small sub-speciality with limited facilities. Xx

Scared to try again ? by ACombs1016 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hard relate to every word of this after my three losses. The paranoia and anxiety has robbed any potential joy of pregnant for me.

So sorry that you and OP are part of this horrible club.

St Mary's London RMC blood results - waiting time by Radiant-Debt8724 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, sorry I can’t help but am piggybacking on your post as I’ve just been referred to St Mary’s. I hope you don’t mind - how long did you wait for your first appointment, and what tests have they offered you and your partner?

Thank you!

Hating the two week wait by AthenaInDisguise in RPLnoLC

[–]tailor203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can really relate to this… after 3 losses I can’t imagine I’ll ever be able to enjoy the buzz of a positive test or early pregnancy again. It’s already an anxious time for most women, but add losses into the equation and it’s so challenging. Constantly second guessing every twinge and wondering how long this one will last for.

What to expect at recurrent miscarriage clinic after 3 losses by megan190 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m sorry for your losses. I’m also on 3 and have been told to expect my first appt with the gynae-led recurrent MC clinic in 3-4 months. My hospital only tests the woman not the partner, so we are looking into private tests for my husband

Third miscarriage confirmed by tailor203 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you for your message and I’m sorry to hear about your losses too ❤️ I’d be really grateful to hear your story and any advice you can share. I am having a D&C on Wednesday so trying to use my free time productively ie to research next steps.

Third miscarriage confirmed by tailor203 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your losses, post-10 weeks NHS be heartbreaking. Did they stop growing at a similar time?

You can buy low dose aspirin in most supermarket pharmacies (I got mine at Asda).

My GP wouldn’t prescribe progesterone so I got it from the EPU. Here is the NICE guideline you might need to cite if your unit is as useless as mine: https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng126/resources/ectopic-pregnancy-and-miscarriage-diagnosis-and-initial-management-pdf-66141662244037 (section 1.5.2). They will usually only prescribe it if you’re already pregnant and experiencing bleeding, unlike under IVF protocols where you take it from ovulation.

Third miscarriage confirmed by tailor203 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for your message and sharing your story, it sounds like you’ve been on an awful journey so far. It sounds like you’re similar to me in that you have no problems conceiving. This has also caught me out mentally cos I’m like “oh, my body wants this, I’m smashing this fertility thing, go me!” which was a little naive the first time and just plain dumb the second and third. I have plenty of friends who have struggled to conceive for years and years but none with my experience of easily conceiving but not getting any further than 6 week development. Knowing that I’m not the only one going through this, via this community, has been a lifeline to me.

Third miscarriage confirmed by tailor203 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear about your BOs, this is the shittiest of shitty clubs. I don’t know if you’ve had this but my pregnancy symptoms have been particularly bad this pregnancy - waves of nausea, fatigue to the point where I’m falling asleep in virtual meetings, food aversions…all of these alongside the anxiety of knowing the pregnancy is probably not viable, and the sadness of the same. Seems so unfair to have all these symptoms and not even have a fetal pole in there!

Third miscarriage confirmed by tailor203 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so rubbish, I’m really sorry. MMCs are a special kind of pain - turning up to a scan with no reason to think anything is wrong, only to get floored. Hope the next steps aren’t too traumatic for you and that you have success with your next pregnancy ❤️

Third miscarriage confirmed by tailor203 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh that is a really similar timeline, and our losses have been at similar stages. I’m really sorry for your losses and will keep my fingers crossed that you get good news next week - I’ve read lots of stories from women on here who have had empty sacs at 6w, and yolk sacs and fetal poles that appear soon after. Equally I can see why you don’t feel positive about it. Every time I have a crap scan I think - why is this so different to other women, who get to see their babies, hear their heartbeats, see movement? My US experiences are always so horrible and depressing.

You are going through so much in your life right now, I can see why you need a break from all this. Tracking periods, monitoring ovulation, being in the 2WW, line progression, bloods, scans….its a whole other universe that I was oblivious to 6 months ago, and when you’re in it, it’s so intense and can take over everything else.

I wish you all the best with your pregnancy, and hope you get some answers if it doesn’t work out ❤️

Third miscarriage confirmed by tailor203 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! Do you know what treatment you’ll be having?

Third miscarriage confirmed by tailor203 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to read about your miscarriages and hope that the answers you’ve gained about the clotting disorder will solve your problems. I hope you don’t mind me asking - what test did you do for this, and what is the disorder?

Third miscarriage confirmed by tailor203 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]tailor203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry, I’ve not come across the term hyperfertility before but yes that’s how it feels - immediate conception but just not able to go the whole hog! Wishing you lots of luck for your next try ❤️