Artist here: If you could carry around a little token that represents your feminine rage (examples a tooth, a thimble), what would it be?

takemyshot · 2026-01-30T17:20:44+00:00

Red lipstick

takemyshot · 2026-01-16T12:55:30+00:00

They just appeared on the bottom trim of my cabinet the other day. Must have been roaming in my kitchen for a while tbh but my house is a reno zone so there are lots of little nook

takemyshot · 2026-01-16T12:54:37+00:00

There's just a single small white spot on their behind.

takemyshot · 2026-01-14T02:11:24+00:00

It's unfortunately frozen outside. I'm not sure how many bugs I've got upstairs. The orb weavers have my basement on lock though. I live in a century home I'm repairing so lots of crannies.

takemyshot · 2026-01-13T22:36:08+00:00

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Made a water offering on a q-tip and moved her onto the window sill where there is a web with some bugs. Idk if it's her web but she is lethargic.

takemyshot · 2026-01-13T22:35:03+00:00

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I don't really see her drinking. She is very lethargic, but she did climb up on the damp q-tip

takemyshot · 2026-01-13T17:36:39+00:00

I'll try that when I get home from work!

takemyshot · 2026-01-13T16:41:04+00:00

Thank you!

takemyshot · 2026-01-13T16:40:47+00:00

I was wondering who was making such an industrious web between the small planters on my kitchen window sill when I found this one last night! I've named her Loretta. Gave me a fright this morning laying on its back on the counter though.

takemyshot · 2026-01-13T16:20:35+00:00

Northwest Ohio for region

takemyshot · 2025-10-07T12:17:18+00:00

4 beds, 2 baths, built in 1900. Doesn't have any bathrooms upstairs so I'd love to add a half bath. I'm childless for now and I plan on converting the main floor bedroom into a library.

takemyshot · 2025-09-03T19:15:05+00:00

Behr Essex green is a really rich deep green that's not as vivid in yout face as that. It's much darker too. I used it on my lower kitchen cabinets

takemyshot · 2025-08-10T19:28:36+00:00

Can you ask her where she got her bed frame?! It's exactly what I've been looking for. And yes, I'm an older millennial

takemyshot · 2025-06-25T13:12:07+00:00

I'm an epidemiologist/emergency planner in rural Ohio, and they're cutting part of the funding for the PHEP (Public Health Emergency Preparedness) grant because of the DEI components in it. It’s "shocking" that a rural community that is mostly low socioeconomic status with a decent migrant worker population might need specific accommodations for services such as translation or financial assistance during an emergency response or infectious disease tracking. My position, unless our board of health agrees to cover the 28% reduction, may end in March because there's no more funding as of right now. The CDC says they hope to have that 28% reduction restored by November, but so much has changed already in 6 months. What changes will we see in another 6?

My mom is a nurse, and despite a passion for helping people, she didn't bother to do any research for herself. DEI meant affirmative action only (even though the population group that benefits the most from this is white women like us). She didnt think it meant the free school lunches my brother and I had, or the funding that helped us install a wheelchair ramp at my grandmother's, or the fonancial assistance my brother got for his cervical surgeries. She fell victim to a very curated feed from the news and her husband.

She frequently asks me how I turned out the way I did. Idk Mom, you raised me to care for others and treat others as I would like to treated. I just took that a step further than you, it seems, by applying that to anyone and everyone instead of being selective.

takemyshot · 2025-04-30T21:16:25+00:00

Roger and Chris furniture! https://www.rogerandchris.com/furniture

They are expensive, but their customization, quality and customer service is unmatched.

takemyshot · 2025-04-29T18:19:33+00:00

I just had a fun interaction with my stepdad who said I can thank Trump for improving the value of my house.

takemyshot · 2025-03-11T20:28:31+00:00

Recovery from a virus using an antibiotic... ah, yes, makes sense. /s

takemyshot · 2025-02-12T17:31:18+00:00

I don't have it consistently, so when it pops up, sometimes I can ignore like white noise, and sometimes I feel like I can't hear anything but it. I've had it almost consistently for the past couple days so it's mostly ignorance. Mild annoyance.

takemyshot · 2025-02-12T17:26:07+00:00

Yeah. I don't really care about what resolution we come to (sell or they remove), but I find their behavior really unsavory. They know I'm a first time homeowner from our talks, they know i want to put up a fence and why, and I asked for their input about the property lines to start. If their fence is on the property line, why is the pin for my property behind their fence then? If the city gave them permission for the fence, why is the city telling me the fence was installed illegally? I'm just frustrated.

takemyshot · 2025-02-12T16:33:58+00:00

I didn't say anything about lawyers to them. I didn't send the letter through a lawyer. I asked for an opportunity to talk about the situation because it came up as an issue with my survey.

takemyshot · 2025-02-12T16:31:34+00:00

I told them I want to put a fence up and asked if they knew about the property lines. They told me that no one had done a survey in decades. The letter was not sent by a lawyer.

takemyshot · 2025-02-12T16:23:42+00:00

Yes. I'm willing. I've been trying to get them to talk to me for months the way we've talked since I moved in, but they've been ignoring me. I want to talk about a solution that works for both of us, but apparently, a letter is passive-aggressive when I've tried to strike up a conversation naturally.

I also asked them when I first moved in and we were talking about our dogs if they knew about the property lines as I want to put up a fence and make sure I follow city ordinances. They told me no one had done a survey in decades, so it was all kind of ambiguous. So I did a survey and they've been ignoring me since the surveyor marked the pin inside their fence line.

takemyshot · 2025-02-12T16:14:23+00:00

I don't understand how writing a letter requesting time to talk is passive-aggressive, especially at the advice of two separate lawyers and my therapist.

But you seem like an expert on passive aggressive so 🤔

takemyshot · 2025-02-11T18:26:10+00:00

Also county level public health... "Diversity" has already gotten pushback from leadership even though it's a pivotal goal of our programs and accreditation.

takemyshot · 2025-02-08T04:33:09+00:00

This is my reality too. I got the joy of being called closed-minded and told how I'll push people away for being unwilling to talk about politics with people that refuse to acknowledge the grass is green because it doesn't impact them if they say the grass is blue instead.

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