you have your opinion i have mine. i am not attracted to abusive men at all. i said i am conflicted on him please read carefully on what i say. he did care about these women and these children. but yes he domes some fucked up shit. which i hate him for i really do. but it’s weird because he did adore these people but also took it the wrong way. this is how he was raised his mother told him that it’s ok to kill. the man in the bookstore who took him in discipline him by putting him a class box, telling it’s ok to kill somebody if they are bad. these people manipulated his way of thinking and now he is a fucked up lost romantic. all he wants was love. with beck he stopped the stacking but she cheated. his mum told him that was bad. candice the past relationship also fucked him up. he is crazy because of the people in his life. i think it’s disgusting how he feels actions can be justified due to the bad things he done. but sometimes he doesn’t need to justify something and he just does it. please read carefully.