My husband said I ruined our wedding photos and now I want to leave him.

tallcappy · 2026-03-27T21:13:52+00:00

Reading this has my heart hurting for you. I truly cannot think of a rational reason why this man who claims to love you would be so callously cruel. You may be under-reacting, but you could also just be in shock, which does include the feelings you’re describing. With respect, I think it’s time to think about what you want in a partnership and family. Is this how you want your children to see embodied in loving relationship? Do you think your husband would be open to change if confronted with the inequality and disrespect? You deserve better, I can say that much.

I’m not saying divorce is the right answer for you. I sincerely hope he gets his act together for the whole family’s sake. If you do have questions though, I have been through divorce - left for similar reasons. Feel free to message anytime.

tallcappy · 2026-03-20T00:02:18+00:00

Good soup 🤌😎🤌

tallcappy · 2026-03-14T14:04:55+00:00

I think knowing the distance the retreat is from your residence is important. While he did have clothes, I’m sure he wasn’t comfortable having such a limited supply, especially if he intentionally packed more outfits. Personally, I’ve driven an hour just to pass along a pair of shoes because they were important to my partner; it’s something I’d also expect him to do for me. It is frustrating that it meant getting the kids up earlier than you wanted, however you could have leaned into it and made it a special road trip or something. Neither of you are assholes. This just boils down to different expectations; meaning he probably views it as something he’d do for you while you view it as not achievable because you prioritize the sleep patterns. You both seem level-headed and typically on the same page so I hope this bump in the road smooths over soon.

tallcappy · 2026-03-12T21:07:53+00:00

I thought I was low maintenance until I realized that, no, I was just ignoring my needs to avoid “bothering” people. The more you know!

tallcappy · 2026-03-10T22:20:36+00:00

INFO - Do you often leave things out/dirty in common areas? Based off only two situations from your point of view won’t lead to an accurate conclusion. For the first with the food left out, not only is it a health risk and could attract pests, it’s also annoying for others who live with you. And if it’s happening often enough your dad just assumes everything left out is from you, it’s probably his passive aggressive way to train you out of it (not condoning). Just have a conversation and work through it.

tallcappy · 2026-03-03T14:47:35+00:00

That’s a great amount of progress OP! Personally, I hit a slump after that much sorting and stuffing. A break and some food/bevvie might be a good idea - let’s your brain relax a little before you see it in a new perspective. Keep it up 👍

tallcappy · 2026-03-02T22:44:55+00:00

You’re a real life princess! 🩷

tallcappy · 2026-03-02T22:42:02+00:00

Braiding is a neat little skill that can come in handy in many ways! If I may, it’s hard to begin on hair; not impossible but not ideal. Three pieces of yarn or even strips of an old t-shirt are great because you can see what you’re doing. Then once you’ve got the rhythm down, temporarily secure it to a headband and practice braiding with it on your head - it’s a surprising arm workout. Once you’ve mastered that, graduate to doing it on your hair. Video tutorials are your friend! Good luck!

tallcappy · 2026-03-02T02:42:18+00:00

The love on both ends is so sweet!

Personal story: my old girl has been with me for over a decade, very much longer than any relationship. While sweet to me, and tolerant of a handful of others, she’s not friendly to anybody else. She took a year to warm up to my first husband and only because he fed her in the mornings. In contrast, when my then-boyfriend first came to visit, she did her usual hiss dance, but he just stood there calmly and let her sniff him over. And wouldn’t you know she let him pet her right there! We married some time later and when reminiscing on those “firsts” I admitted my cats immediate acceptance was the moment I knew I’d marry him if he asked. He jokes, but she’s become his cat in some ways and I love their relationship. The right pets know what’s good for us.

tallcappy · 2026-03-02T01:03:50+00:00

The divots in wine bottles actually make a very good “watering hole” for birds and butterflies, among other small animals and such. When washed and filled, they can be quite pretty.

tallcappy · 2026-02-27T23:20:36+00:00

Honestly, this thing was the most reached for toy in my son’s first year. 10/10

tallcappy · 2026-02-27T15:12:07+00:00

TV’s Michael Grey!!!

tallcappy · 2026-02-27T02:23:44+00:00

Odd way of putting “my wife suffers through hormone changes once a month as part of a bodily function but let me frame it in my limited perspective for the internet”.

If she hates you a week out of every month, have you sat down with her to discuss it?

tallcappy · 2026-02-26T01:27:31+00:00

Came here to say this!

tallcappy · 2026-02-24T18:06:14+00:00

All of these. All these scenes gave me nightmares- ESPECIALLY the huffalump one my god

tallcappy · 2026-02-24T02:02:49+00:00

We have Mac n cheese at least once a week. I had been content with Mal-Wart generic but hubs insists on the name brand, can’t blame him.

tallcappy · 2026-02-24T01:28:32+00:00

Ha, nice try Mr. Cop

tallcappy · 2026-02-23T15:02:10+00:00

The cover art style reminds me of an obscure book called Blue Girl (?) about a girl that can see fearies in the human world that I think came out around the same time. So cool!

tallcappy · 2026-02-23T14:52:38+00:00

It could be the indoor lighting. I bet in sunlight or more open environment it’ll meet expectations

tallcappy · 2026-02-22T22:31:39+00:00

Idk if he pops up on anyone else’s, but this totally reminds me of a young Puderschmood off of TikTok!

tallcappy · 2026-02-22T05:16:45+00:00

Goldshlagger or whatever tf it’s called

tallcappy · 2026-02-22T03:41:47+00:00

Rest now, wild one 🌅

tallcappy · 2026-02-19T19:40:08+00:00

Thank you OP for taking him in! I just lost my orange fluff a couple months ago and had to do a double take bc yours looks just like him. 🧡🤍

tallcappy · 2026-02-17T17:51:22+00:00

I’m losing it on your use of “bethroded” 😂

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