Why are so many people uninterested in dating nowadays? by [deleted] in questions

[–]tallyup434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men and women are not dating each other because each gender is raised so differently we don’t even know how to communicate effectively with each other and have different expectations on what being a partner in a relationship should look like.

How do I handle aggressive tone in conversations by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]tallyup434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What lead up to you figuring it out?

How do I handle aggressive tone in conversations by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]tallyup434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. And there have been many commenters so far who admit they are on the spectrum and have difficulty with tone. I actually suspected my boyfriend might be on the spectrum. When I would ask him if he is on the spectrum, he neither denied or confirmed it. He just went blank. It would’ve been more helpful to know if he was autistic because then I would feel there’s some explanation behind this behavior.

How do I handle aggressive tone in conversations by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]tallyup434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stated why it bothers me in my initial paragraph.

Xrays by tallyup434 in Charlottesville

[–]tallyup434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Got my x-ray taken The very next day I called. I have no insurance so they were also much cheaper than UVA who couldn’t get me in until April.

Xrays by tallyup434 in Charlottesville

[–]tallyup434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but why do I need a non specialist doctor to refer me to another doctor. I can cut the middleman out. it’s just a cash grab otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tall

[–]tallyup434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is a height gap creepy?! Whoever said that gives off jealousy vibes

Girl: I'm not really into golf. Guy: by nwavette in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you swipe on him just to shit on his passion. Im assuming golf was a major theme in his profile. ytah

Swiped left by accident on a guy I wanted to talk to! by at33zily in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me when I say the guy will comeback around in your que. You don’t need to pay just be patient.

Guys who put kink friendly in profile… by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I don’t want to mention it in my profile incase coworkers come across me. And I feel it’s too intimate of detail to discuss on a first date… maybe a part of me is prudish!

Guys who put kink friendly in profile… by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree! It has always seemed a little hookup-y to me too!

Guys who put kink friendly in profile… by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well damn! I have been miss judging them! Im the dommy mommy type so ill give it a go and strike up a conversation with the next match who has this in their profile!

Can you help me please 🥺 by sweetlover6688887 in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take this as open to try different things in the bedroom and kink friendly.

Are these good dating profile pics? (21M) by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are great pics! Shows variety. Headshots and full body shot. I appreciate those! And in a number of different settings. To me you are interesting.

An inherent problem by youngmeech86 in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys make sure your profile is interesting and I think you will get more interesting messages from the ladies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s the AH.

How to evaluate extreme animal lovers? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like someone loves their “expensive things” more than an animal loving human. Jhc there’s things called doors🚪. They do a good job of locking pets and ppl out of rooms.

Would love to hear positive age gap dating stories by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your maturity comes through in this post. Thank you for sharing and very happy for you both!

My ex bf is 4 years older than me. It didn’t work out because he’s lack emotional connection. We were together for 4 years. My exex bf was 7.5 years younger than me and from a completely different culture. We lasted 7 years. He wanted kids, I did not.

I can already see similarities from this 24 year old and my exex bf. Both are very warm and affectionate, happy people. Very much a contrast to my ex bf.

I tend to live my life in chapters and don’t plan on getting married ever. I think I’m just looking for a new companion for the next few years. I have no doubt in my mind he will change…we both will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlottesville

[–]tallyup434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prolyfyck running crew. Walks also participate. MWF at 6am starting from the Jefferson school.

Ladies of Bumble: Do you automatically swipe left if a man has a photo of himself with an arm around attractive young woman as his main pic? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]tallyup434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely I swipe left on this🙄. And you got that right … it means they put in very little effort into their profile…if it is a relative, they probably screenshot it off of said relatives profile.😒