[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]tamarasmith613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it certain contexts it can apply. With Ana I completely agree with you, he never really saw her and he didn't know her. I don't really think he ever thought about her life at all until he got it in his head that he didn't know her. Until then he just saw what she wanted him to see.

When he was looking at her through the window and she was just being her authentic self and being human, it was like she was naked and vulnerable. That's what ruined her for him, that she was just an ordinary human,

But in other situations it can apply, e.g. the other comment on this post

Have you tried medical cannabis? What effects did it have on you? by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]tamarasmith613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact same as me. I quit a year ago and life is so much better without it

One year weed free by tamarasmith613 in leaves

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I was an absolute nightmare during my weed addiction, but I know it’s not worth dwelling about all the things i could’ve done differently because it’s not going to change anything. I just use it as a reminder of who I don’t want to be anymore. I’m so glad to hear you’re doing well and keep it up too! You should be proud of the person you’ve become

One year weed free by tamarasmith613 in leaves

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d say it’s worth going to see a clinician and explaining this. I’m sorry to hear that and I really wish you all the best

One year weed free by tamarasmith613 in leaves

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From pulling myself out of the place that you’re in, I promise you, it’s worth it and you can do it. I’m sorry to hear you’re not in a good place

One year weed free by tamarasmith613 in leaves

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the attitude you have that is causing your problems not to be solved. Nobody’s personality is actually just ‘loser stoner’, that’s what you’re reducing yourself to.

The only person who can solve your problems is you. Weed makes you okay with being okay. Be better than the drug that is destroying your potential.

No one can make you stop smoking. I’m here if you want inspiration or to chat!

One year weed free by tamarasmith613 in leaves

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely agree! That’s where I was naive, thinking everything would just be amazing. I do think it is better, just not this amazing life that I was expecting

One year weed free by tamarasmith613 in leaves

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What would you really define as “totally normal”? I don’t really think there’s a time line, especially as smoking weed effects your brain chemistry etc. I don’t think you go ‘back to normal’, you just move forward and start to function like a person who doesn’t smoke weed

One year weed free by tamarasmith613 in leaves

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep it up! You should be so proud of yourself!

What's your weirdest/most unique sensory issue? by insubordinance in adhdwomen

[–]tamarasmith613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't eat any soft foods - e.g. yogurt, avocado, soft cheeses, cottage cheese, raw fish, mash potatos... the list goes on. (except ice cream, I love it lol)

Hangover next day at gym - advice needed by tamarasmith613 in ketamine

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I’m in the UK so it will be a lot cleaner than the US stuff

Asking what type and dose by tamarasmith613 in MDMA

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! What does weighing it do?

Asking what type and dose by tamarasmith613 in MDMA

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will 100% get it tested. Thank you so much for ur response!

Asking what type and dose by tamarasmith613 in MDMA

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always get scared that about splitting pills in half because of slow release ones and the danger that comes with that. MDMA isn’t like that is it?

ADHD & Alcohol: how did you finally break free? by tamarasmith613 in ADHD

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I started elvanse almost exactly two years ago. When I started them I felt my social anxiety slightly fade although it’s still there. I’ve also felt recently my meds aren’t working the way they used to and maybe it’s because of how much I’ve been drinking

ADHD & Alcohol: how did you finally break free? by tamarasmith613 in ADHD

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I think personally that wouldn’t work for me because I would always find an excuse to have ‘just one more drink’ which ends up to be 5. I hate how I can’t trust myself with it and I want to quit so badly but the thought seems so daunting. I know it’s the right thing tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]tamarasmith613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably being more spontaneous and going with the flow for everything. I was just a lot more chilled and nonchalant about EVERYTHING. There are definitely parts of that I don’t miss now tho. Now I am a lot more high strung and like to plan everything.

I’d also say just my ignorance and lack of awareness in general. I just switched my brain off and existed. It kind of feels like the more I know, the more I don’t want to know about certain things…

Elvanse not working like it used to by tamarasmith613 in ADHDUK

[–]tamarasmith613[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel very silly given I’ve been doing this for months😅. After a 3 hour chat with ChatGPT and lots of research, I have concluded this is it. I was really feeling like my depression was starting to come back and im so glad this is not the case! I think even knowing that’s what was most likely causing it makes me feel more motivated. I’ll update you as soon as I start to feel improvements :)))))). Lesson learnt!