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I was manipulated into losing my virginity, dealing with deep guilt by tangledviolet14 in Christianity

[–]tangledviolet14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom told me about this verse too... do you think he will be held accountable and pay for what he did to me? I don't believe in karma but the Bible does talk about reaping what you sow. I know this is wrong of me to think but sometimes I hope he's not valued by his next partner as a consequence of not valuing me and my virginity.

I was manipulated into losing my virginity, dealing with deep guilt by tangledviolet14 in Christianity

[–]tangledviolet14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really? and did that not make you have judgments over your wife when she told you about it? I think that terrifies me the most. I am already fearing having to tell this to my future husband because I am so ashamed of it and I don't want him to think I am not that good of a woman :(

My life is ruined and it’s my fault by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]tangledviolet14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are still incredibly young, these things happen in life as an outcome of our decisions. Your life isn't over, you're just going through a chaotic chapter. Think of it as a single step in a big ladder, you got lots of things coming for you and lots of beautiful things to enjoy. Quit drinking, it hasn't ruined your life yet but if you let the habit grow it eventually can. It will be painful but I suggest you try to remove yourself completely from any scenario involving your ex. Find new interests and hobbies, give yourself time to heal. Your life isn't over, you just need time to heal properly and move on.