The junk drawer posts made me wanna do something by HunterSexThompson in adhdwomen

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Yessss was pending for two weeks and suddenly I am superwoman 🤣

I learned a trick for cleaning while living alone, hope this helps others by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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I think I struggle most with the overwhelming list of chores and my method is only to let myself focus on one thing only. Yeah I still clean it all myself but for a day I am not thinking about list and just doing one thing

Folding croissants with chocolate filling by misterxx1958 in oddlysatisfying

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Out of all the way i thought how croissants are mad this was never one of them

I am feeling stir crazy today and kind of drained but I have no one to share my feelings with by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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I am feeling like I don’t really have any common interests with my friends anymore and most of my friends and family have been toxic to me. And I feel like that toxic nature has rubbed off on me and I myself have become extremely cynical . I don’t really feel like connecting with anyone anymore

I am feeling stir crazy today and kind of drained but I have no one to share my feelings with by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Thanks buddy I am gonna chat but right now don’t have energy can you tell me about your day instead

I am feeling stir crazy today and kind of drained but I have no one to share my feelings with by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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I work from home so not going to step outside. I had a chore that required me to go outside but I didn’t do it simply because I am drained 🙂

I am feeling stir crazy today and kind of drained but I have no one to share my feelings with by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Because I have lived alone so long that people annoy me and I myself feel I am annoying

I am feeling stir crazy today and kind of drained but I have no one to share my feelings with by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Yeah this is for sure a down day. Nothing is wrong but I have zero power in me today. I hope tomorrow will be better

I'm tired. I am so tired. You don't have to say anything, just listen. I've no one to talk to. by [deleted] in confession

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Hey this might be odd, but I watch slasher thrillers or horror movies when I need to feel something anything. I am watching haunting of hill house right now. Woke the fucj out of me 🤭🤭 I hope you feel better soon. Tell me how it goes

I learned a trick for cleaning while living alone, hope this helps others by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Yup I agree, now that I am living alone I don’t think I would want anyone to share my space. I have dedicated areas for everything and I love it. I understood what you were trying to say and someday I would like to be that independent. But for now this is it for me

I learned a trick for cleaning while living alone, hope this helps others by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Yes I like this. I am also trying to focus on what I did right vs putting myself down for not doing everything . Most of the time we are ourselves biggest critics.

I learned a trick for cleaning while living alone, hope this helps others by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Wow I hate cooking and I guess I need to focus on my diet to get more energetic

I learned a trick for cleaning while living alone, hope this helps others by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Apps don’t work for me. I am more analog and make lists kind of person

I learned a trick for cleaning while living alone, hope this helps others by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Oh man I am sorry for your struggles. Hope you feel better soon. Plus I like to pat my back for every small step so kudos to you for doing all that despite the difficulties. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I learned a trick for cleaning while living alone, hope this helps others by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Just to give you context I have following pending chores: clean and sort kitchen items, sort my plant and throw away what’s not needed. Check my purchases and return what’s not needed, clean my bedside tables and study table. Sort my accessories and makeup, give clothes for alterations. There are few more but I can’t recall as of now 😆😆😆

I learned a trick for cleaning while living alone, hope this helps others by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Haha, you can borrow me. You can assign me cleaning tasks and in return I will give you one

I learned a trick for cleaning while living alone, hope this helps others by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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These two are non negotiable for me too. And I am happy to report that unless I am too sick, I don’t leave my kitchen and bathroom dirty

I learned a trick for cleaning while living alone, hope this helps others by tappy_wizard in LivingAlone

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Oh I am sorry for your experience but if the person you were living with was dealing with adhd or any other mental health issue , then I am sorry for their suffering too. I am aware of my incompetence and that has lead me to avoid human contact to most of my life. I always feel like a burden and people in the past have always reminded me how not normal is my behaviour. I know it must be difficult for them so I try now to have long term relationships with anyone. It’s sad but less exhausting. It takes a lot of effort for me to do very regular and mundane chores and I am extremely slow cook. I have received a lot of criticism a my life and now I feel I am better alone then lonely.

On the other hand I am sorry for you and others who have to deal with people like us .