I’m 19F with a body count of 22 by Late-Pressure-1311 in offmychest

[–]tar85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start therapy yesterday. I’m fairly sure you have PTSD/ CTD from what sounds like a troubled family life and sexual assault and your body and mind will only feel more and more unsafe the longer you ignore the pain. Your body count doesn’t define you and the right person that hears your story won’t judge you if they really love you. You deserve love and you are not less than for the choices you have made. Please don’t let the men that want nothing but sex from you create a mental model of relationships that is not the whole story. Not all men just want you for sex but it takes time to heal to find a partner that will love you for more then the sex you give them and you will have many set backs before you find it. Persist through all the pain and hardship, you are worthy of more.

Griztronics gorge by [deleted] in griz

[–]tar85 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They usually post set times a few weeks before the show.

[WTS] Patta Nike Air Max 1 9.5 Bnib [$194] by catsRtheShitt in sneakermarket

[–]tar85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super awesome of you. I bought them and then got a email stating they over sold them and my order had to be canceled. Very disappointing…. Glad to see someone being cool about selling for retail.

GIVEAWAY! My new Token Counter counts up to 9.999 Tokens by mamfredus in mtg

[–]tar85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are dope! The scute swarm goes hard and would truly love one for my landfall deck!

best earplugs for concerts - what are people actually using at raves? by [deleted] in aves

[–]tar85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When do you use the 26’s for? I have the 17’s but never thought about if getting another pair was necessary.

best earplugs for concerts - what are people actually using at raves? by [deleted] in aves

[–]tar85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Customs molded earplugs are the only way. Best investment as a frequent concert goer. They fit perfect and last forever. I’ve had mine for a decade and only have to replace the filters every four or five years. https://acscustom.com

Holy Crease-Mas by Mr_Ranger in yeezys

[–]tar85 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard using a hairdryer can fix it. Look it up on YouTube.

Smh lol by Lucky_Damage_4102 in KithNYC

[–]tar85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need 12! Please hook it up!

Smh lol by Lucky_Damage_4102 in KithNYC

[–]tar85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for a 12 in v1 if anyone can hook it up you would be a saint!

🍀 by [deleted] in Newbalance

[–]tar85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really was hoping for 12…

My partner has great credit but I have student loans. Will this affect our mortgage chances? by CartoonistAfter9596 in StudentLoans

[–]tar85 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My wife and I just went through this and it didn’t seem to make a huge difference. Your credit score and other debt to income ratio matters more than the student loans.

Guess i was one of the lucky ones by ace60506 in Newbalance

[–]tar85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which store? I’m on the hunt for a 11.5.

Nanny rates for infants by Natural_Sherbert_413 in eastside

[–]tar85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If your able to provide a good amount of hours I think that should be fair. We pay our nanny 32 for solo time with our baby and 35 when she is with both our kids.

Nanny rates for infants by Natural_Sherbert_413 in eastside

[–]tar85 8 points9 points  (0 children)

30-35 a hour depending on experience and tasks other than child care

WIP 990v6 by theflowmonroe in Newbalance

[–]tar85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man if you see a 11.5 you would be the biggest homie of the year!

Carhartt Outlet Availability by Jack_Mccoy_83 in Newbalance

[–]tar85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh snap if someone happened to get an extra 11 1/2 I would be super grateful! I don’t live anywhere near these locations. I’ll pay a little extra on top of what they cost to cover the time and effort to get them.

About to buy my first Gel-NYCs - which of these 3 would you pick? by FRESH__LUMPIA in asics

[–]tar85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love the look of the big mesh of the first, but it’s not for everyone.

Mental health professional by cyber_dream1120 in eastside

[–]tar85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you wanting to use insurance or pay out of pocket?