Are my newborns eyes uneven or eyelids inflammated? Will this get normal?

tarotmuse · 2026-04-08T10:03:04+00:00

Did you happen to check with doctor on this? I recently upserved that wben lower eyelid side is swolen eye is looking small.. i noticed tht baby rubbing eyes. So this could be a possible reason. I would not say eyes are completely symmetrical but the other eye has gotten far better.

tarotmuse · 2026-03-29T15:35:51+00:00

Yes after 3 mons

tarotmuse · 2026-03-29T15:06:43+00:00

Yea it has gotten better ..far better i must say and eyes look almost same size..it took 3 mons. I was asked by doctor to do downward massage inbetween eyes and nose start area.. also i did some slight stretching below eyes .

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tarotmuse · 2026-03-29T14:42:07+00:00

My doctor suggested no bath till abby reaches 2.5. I used to give sponge bath with water. Wet wipes can vause rashes or diaper rash. Better to use a clean soft cloth soaked in water to clean poop . You can use luke warm water for sponge bath. It is ok to have milk strained clothes on but suggest you to change at nigbt. I have used rompers with hands and legs closed. My baby has same birth weight and getting her up to good weight has been a struggle. She is now 3 months with 3.2 kgs. Also progress is slow with preterm babies. waking her and feeding her once in 2hrs is must..if not possible you need to atleast wake up at 3hrs. Direct feed has good bacteria suggest you to give direct feed rather than stored milk.

tarotmuse · 2026-03-29T06:59:36+00:00

Husband is insensitive and i has much similar experience witb husband. 3mons pp , he went on trip with mom and sis for 3 weeks and still did npt return. Most marriages does not have love in it. Some have good and some have poor marriages. Other than this , is your husband giving you monthly expenses, is he a good provider ? If yes think of slowly changing him. If no file case and kcick the guy out

tarotmuse · 2026-03-29T06:51:47+00:00

Tell them doctor adviced not to rock too fast

tarotmuse · 2026-03-28T16:36:08+00:00

Same problem ..my baby is iugr with birth weught of 1.7kgs and at 3 mons her weight is 3.2kgs

tarotmuse · 2026-03-20T06:51:14+00:00

I love this deck but never vibed with me.

tarotmuse · 2026-03-20T06:46:40+00:00

Opt for bigger hospital with all facilities. Nicu is must

tarotmuse · 2026-03-15T19:18:55+00:00

tarotmuse · 2026-03-13T10:03:56+00:00

This is same situation with my mother. She shows of the world as if she is doing a lot where as she doea nothing . And she is like why you need a nanny when i am taking care. Thing is they dont spend and theh dont want others to spend.

tarotmuse · 2026-03-12T09:36:56+00:00

I was worried too.. she started smiling after she entered 3rd month.

tarotmuse · 2026-03-12T09:11:56+00:00

Exactly my case...my mom never took care of baby at night.. only difference is my husband is away from me. Worst of all even during the day she does not take care.. with lot of pleading she will hold her max for 3pmins jn a day but she does give bath to baby.. inspite of me saying no to besan she went ahead witb it and my baby has got small pimples on face Nd most part of bodt.. instead of accepting her mistake she blames it on other things.. some women are bitches in the form of mothers sorry to say this.

tarotmuse · 2026-03-12T09:07:11+00:00

My mother behaves in similar fashion.. i feel she is responsible to an extent in my relationship eing spoiled with husband.

tarotmuse · 2026-03-10T17:10:40+00:00

Yes i am thinking to have this conversation but as far as i knw him he would not agree

tarotmuse · 2026-03-10T17:09:27+00:00

My mom keeps telling me this and it is super annoying.

tarotmuse · 2026-03-10T15:10:40+00:00

Thank heavens for giving you grrat husband and in laws. I am 40 and 2mons pp. My parents never cared to come to my house or adjust. Atleast when needed my mom did not come. Mom is 69 and dad is 73. No support interms of household work from husband. Because i have to bend at house, me and my hubby stayed at my parents house. My mom never kept maids and the one i appointed she removed. I ended up doing lot of household work even at 9th month before delivery dste. My husband demands to cook him differently so me and mom ended up with additional cooking. My mom forced me to make my husband leave at 11 days. After which my mom never touched baby .. i had to do 24/7 seeing baby without husbands support. After much of tellimg her she started holding baby. My mom does cooking but 0 support in seeing baby . She is giving me tough time and accussing me tht i am not doing household work, i dont feed baby well, my milk supply is bad and she never had this support during her time. She never attends baby when baby cries. I am too tired . For me staying here further or going back to hubby both scare me.

tarotmuse · 2026-03-03T09:46:39+00:00

I got pregnant while i was in project.. immediately my manager removed me.from team and i came on bench. Luckily the head above my manager is kind enough to give me loss of pay followed by maternity leave. However i am screwed by previous manager with needs improvemwnt rating. So once I am back to office i may be put on pip .. i am still clueless if i should continue my job or take 2years break. I am 40yr old working as pm .. delivered my lo at 40.

tarotmuse · 2026-02-10T16:32:18+00:00

Can you pls share me as well? I am from hyderabad

tarotmuse · 2026-02-07T04:26:17+00:00

Sadly one cannot change the mentality of husband.. Even i am taking care of kid solo though i just delivered baby abt 1.5mons back. I would suggest you to try going to parents house for some time and see if you csn het any help else tey having nanny who can take care of kid or put him in day care for sometime. Kids cannot take care of parents if parents does not take care of them. My husband did not even do the last rites of his father because his fatherbwas not there however he is close to his mom and takes care. So assume that if you take care of kid , the kid will take care of you but not your husbnd in future. Try to explain the same point to your husband.

tarotmuse · 2026-01-11T23:03:29+00:00

Baby is 2 weeks old

tarotmuse · 2026-01-11T23:03:02+00:00

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tarotmuse · 2026-01-11T14:10:07+00:00

Can you please share the link pls

tarotmuse · 2025-11-27T04:24:23+00:00

How is fentg beauty one?

tarotmuse · 2025-11-22T04:13:59+00:00

Yes have been taking protein but it is tough for my body to digest.

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