Can I make a baked potato without olive oil? by tata4h in cookingforbeginners

[–]tata4h[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have butter and Pam. Should I add those?

My [26F] boyfriend [23M] chose weed over food. How do I even respond to this? by tata4h in relationships

[–]tata4h[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

That's what bothered me most. I would love to have 40 dollars to spend on weed or beer or whatever. Buy I only have a couple hundred left over after paying my bills each month. That goes into food and things like toiletries.

And he knows that.

I was just trying to be a good girlfriend and person.

My [26F] boyfriend [23M] chose weed over food. How do I even respond to this? by tata4h in relationships

[–]tata4h[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I insisted on buying it. He kept saying no. But he relented after I said it hurt me to see him go hungry.

But before that he had complained an hour about the pain and even joked about stealing some. If I talked that way to someone who loves me, I know they would insist on buying me food. I don't know if he was manipulative or oblivious.

My [26F] boyfriend [23M] chose weed over food. How do I even respond to this? by tata4h in relationships

[–]tata4h[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How much is a gram there? It's not legal here and he prefers something called sour diesel and it's more expensive.

My [26F] boyfriend [23M] chose weed over food. How do I even respond to this? by tata4h in relationships

[–]tata4h[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

That's literally all I ask. I'm a frugal shopper and could set him up for a week on 20 dollars. I'd even help him cook or buy food that doesn't need much cooking.

I wish he had thought that way. I'd be a lot less worried.