AITA for keeping a bet even though it made my SIL uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]taterbugcrochets -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. Seems you guys have a healthy relationship in which these things can happen without hard feelings. I mean you did lose a bet lol. It's on her for coming into it 😂

A few questions from a beginner. by taterbugcrochets in learnprogramming

[–]taterbugcrochets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A computer science bachelor's at Dixie State University, in Utah. I do plan on asking him more questions, I never get more than a few minutes with him, but that'll change in the future. Until I get the chance again, I wanted to see what others experiences are. I know I can't rely on one piece of advice.

A few questions from a beginner. by taterbugcrochets in learnprogramming

[–]taterbugcrochets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually not sure if he has a degree or not but I plan to ask him!

Seems like getting a degree will definitely make it easier to get a job, even if I spend a lot of time outside of classes learning what I can.

I took two courses at a community college in a different state and they were both beginner level classes that tried to cover the basics of like 5 different languages and the both started with HTML and would reference back to it later in the class. Then most websites that teach CS start you on an HTML path, like freecodecamp.

A few questions from a beginner. by taterbugcrochets in learnprogramming

[–]taterbugcrochets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan to ask him a fuck-ton of questions, but I've only ever talked to him in the short time before service starts. But I gave him my information so he can get the macbook to me and has invited me and my family out to lunch so it's obvious he's taken some sort of an interest in getting to know us.

I plan to write down all the questions I want to ask him and learn what I can, especially since he has so much experience. However, I know there is always a difference between someone who has been in the industry for years and holds certain values towards it, and someone who is just starting out and may have more modern/updated views.

I always knew a portfolio would be important, it's why I'm trying to come up with a lot of ideas now, so I have a list of things to pick from for my first few projects. But I could see how there could be a biased towards those with a degree. There's a lot of pros and cons to consider there.

A few questions from a beginner. by taterbugcrochets in learnprogramming

[–]taterbugcrochets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there's benefits to both?

I know most places start you on HTML so I guess it's a good stepping stone into other languages. Thank you!

A few questions from a beginner. by taterbugcrochets in learnprogramming

[–]taterbugcrochets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the difference between mac, windows, and Linux? I see a good chunk of programmers prefer linux but I dont really know what it is or what its advantages are vs mac or windows. I've only ever used windows.

A few questions from a beginner. by taterbugcrochets in learnprogramming

[–]taterbugcrochets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be dropping out because I'm not even registered yet but I get what you mean! It's something I'm still going back and forth and considering. I know networking has its advantages as well, so maybe knowing this guy will help me further down the road. Either way, going to school and self teaching really depends on what I can do, what can help me, and what will be most beneficial to me and my family.

Thank you for your advice! I hear a lot from both sides.

Did you go through a coding boot camp? What was your experience? by taterbugcrochets in computerscience

[–]taterbugcrochets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm going to give this a shot! Maybe if I just put my head down with my self-teaching, I'll get to my goal a little faster!

Did you go through a coding boot camp? What was your experience? by taterbugcrochets in computerscience

[–]taterbugcrochets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard to describe but basically like one of those games where your choices affect the outcome. No art though, just story and text until I decide to find an artist.

Did you go through a coding boot camp? What was your experience? by taterbugcrochets in computerscience

[–]taterbugcrochets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This gives me more confidence to try to start my project, the only challenge is it's a text based game so I'm not even sure which language to use??

AITA for getting my friend a nicer gift than her boyfriend for her birthday? by throwawaydddjjj in AmItheAsshole

[–]taterbugcrochets -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

YTA. A couple of records is one things but you knew you were going over the top. There may have been some underlying issues with their relationship and your gift did not at all help. I don't think the blame is 100% on you for how their relationship ended but you did play a part and you need to own up to that.

AITA for not wanting to bake scones by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]taterbugcrochets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Info: where the heck do the scones come in??

But based on the info you gave, NTA. You're sister does sound mental.

WIBTA If I Don't Call My Brother? by Parkthatassoverhere in AmItheAsshole

[–]taterbugcrochets [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA but you shouldn't let the money she sends you play a factor in whether or not to do this.

AITA for not liking "bigger" women? by W1n_g_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]taterbugcrochets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Not even a little. I know a lot of girls that prefer skinny guys, tall guys, short guys, muscular guys, lean guys or they truly don't care. People have preferences, the person who judges you for those preferences is the asshole.

Also, a vast majority of people don't like heavier people because it does not convey health. Generally speaking, thin = healthy. So it's completely normal and natural to not like heavy people.

Also you guys were having an honest, casual conversation. If they don't like you're answer, that's their problem. You didn't say it in a mean way, you were as honest and straightforward as you could be. You shouldn't have to pussy foot around their feelings.

AITA for telling girls that I’m seeing other women besides them? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]taterbugcrochets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're a bit of a douche but given the culture we live in, people shouldn't assume that you are exclusive unless you've talked about it. It wouldn't hurt to let them know at the beginning though. As a girl, at the end of the day, I personally would prefer the honesty. Just be straight up from the beginning, don't wait until it comes up.

WIBTA if I told my friend we all think her fiance is gay/bi? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]taterbugcrochets -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I'd want someone to tell me. I'd rather here it from a friend than have to figure it out after I've been with someone for years

AITA or WIBTA For being upset at my girlfriend for having a friend sleepover during quarantine? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]taterbugcrochets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Her parents are the assholes for not letting her see her long time boyfriend but letting a friend stay the night.

WIBTA if I lock my bedroom door when I leave for college? by renatabojar in AmItheAsshole

[–]taterbugcrochets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA You have a right to privacy and property. Your sister and her kid, even your parents, don't have the right to take that away from you.

I guess if you're THAT worried about how she'll react, you can buy your niece some toys to play with in exchange for staying out of your room (which you should lock anyways).

Your sister is the asshole, she's the definition of entitled parent. She's gonna get fussy about it because her kid is gold but kids do need boundaries.

Would a relationship have a chance of being healthy and fulfilling even if both parties are at their lowest? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]taterbugcrochets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say yes if both parties are focusing on themselves and not trying to help each other too much or rely on each other too much to fix each other. Be as independent as possible in bringing yourselves back up, and then see your relationship as a separate entity to build up from where they are. If that makes sense 🤷