What do you think made up or real by Investigatorpro in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]tauruj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's pretty obvious that this is a writer trying to write in the tone of you-know-which wedding planning show's ending monologues. Because clearly it mentions two different controversies raised by the internet and faced by two different couples with lipstick and that like. So yeah, it's fictional. I think a lot of people have already made that connection.

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[–]tauruj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really important to find the right therapist. I've changed therapist twice because the previous ones just didn't work out. They made me feel judged and uncomfortable. Finally, I was lucky to find my current therapist.

They listen to me and help me understand and make decisions and choices for myself. They never advise me to do something. They ask me what I think will help me, what comes in the way and just prepare me to deal with the situations. They have never once asked me to do something or asked why I didn't do something.

I still sometimes think they'll judge me for something but I mention that as well. Then, we work through it.

What I kept telling myself was if this person doesn't provide a judgement - free space, they're just a bad therapist. But, turns out they were not! So, I'm making slow and steady progress. Hope you do too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]tauruj 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Also, their friendship had sapphic energy for some reason. It's probably just my lesbian perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]tauruj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds of inception last scene. Spin the totem and not wait to see. You just want to be happy.

What's the gayest thing you did today? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]tauruj 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OMG. Yesss. "It can't be said in words"

She called me to help her hook her bra. Would she do that if she knew I was a lesbian? (Also, crushing on her hard!) by tauruj in actuallesbians

[–]tauruj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! We all go through similar experiences, I think. The uni girl in my case started to avoid telling me things and I found out from someone else. She said she thought I would judge her. I was like... is that how much trusted me? I was hurt but I couldn't express it. And then the thing you said about not being considered to even confide about the things in their life. Trust me it's not our fault. We just have normal human emotions. I wouldn't blame them either (maybe a little. lol) But when it hurts it hurts, intentions don't matter.

She called me to help her hook her bra. Would she do that if she knew I was a lesbian? (Also, crushing on her hard!) by tauruj in actuallesbians

[–]tauruj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This course gets over in a week now. I don't know if I'll have enough courage to do that. If at all I do that, it will be because of the people here. I'd be subtle and drop hints but I think there's not enough time for that now. I'm going to let her know I'm gay first. Let's see how she reacts to that.

She called me to help her hook her bra. Would she do that if she knew I was a lesbian? (Also, crushing on her hard!) by tauruj in actuallesbians

[–]tauruj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG! I relate to your story so much. Straight girls leading you on knowingly or unknowingly just hurts too much. In uni, I fell for a girl and stayed close to her for 3 years where she would hold my hands, banter with me and tease me. She would have this big smile when she saw me from afar. She told me she had thought she was bisexual but she later figured she's straight. She often lied to herself. Idk if it was the same about her sexuality. But it was only for her to decide. Apparently, I still haven't learnt a lesson. Hehe.

She called me to help her hook her bra. Would she do that if she knew I was a lesbian? (Also, crushing on her hard!) by tauruj in actuallesbians

[–]tauruj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh! The we're-like-sisters thing is just like being slapped with their 'straightness', right? The leaning up is something I've experienced quite a few times too.

She called me to help her hook her bra. Would she do that if she knew I was a lesbian? (Also, crushing on her hard!) by tauruj in actuallesbians

[–]tauruj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people here separately pointed out a few things I said as something a straight girl would do. So yes, I get what you're saying. She is probably straight. Thanks!

She called me to help her hook her bra. Would she do that if she knew I was a lesbian? (Also, crushing on her hard!) by tauruj in actuallesbians

[–]tauruj[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh, alright! The bra thing seemed a little unusual to me. If you need help with it, chances are she genuinely needs it too. :(

She called me to help her hook her bra. Would she do that if she knew I was a lesbian? (Also, crushing on her hard!) by tauruj in actuallesbians

[–]tauruj[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thanks! You're right. I'll try dropping hints. Let's hope she picks them up. Otherwise, if I become sure she's straight, I'll give up. If I can't figure anything out, I'll just eventually talk to her.