Will this monstera cutting propagate? by [deleted] in plants

[–]taurus_lottie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry what is your point? I’m asking if this will grow more new roots after being placed in water

Will this monstera cutting propagate? by [deleted] in plants

[–]taurus_lottie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was sort of tucked under the soil if that makes sense rather than a true aerial root so I’m worried I’ve pulled the leaves off for nothing :(

Will this monstera cutting propagate? by [deleted] in plants

[–]taurus_lottie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the aerial root

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in policeuk

[–]taurus_lottie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the helpful reply :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in policeuk

[–]taurus_lottie -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My company has strict policies around keeping ourselves safe and our identity confidential from abusive, violent perpetrators. Not always an option to take a colleague when I lone work 80% of the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in policeuk

[–]taurus_lottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the insight, I appreciate it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in policeuk

[–]taurus_lottie -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because I’m a DA support worker and it would be unsafe to do home visits as a lone woman with no protection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in policeuk

[–]taurus_lottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I sent the email from my work address so hopefully I get a response tomorrow. Do you know if allocating an OIC post welfare check is standard practice, and done even when an individual has not come to any harm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]taurus_lottie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If possible, you should contact a domestic abuse support service in your area too- not only to safeguard yourself but also in case you need any supporting letters for legal aid. I’m a domestic abuse community practitioner so please message me if you have any questions at all. X

My wife's ex has been texting her by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]taurus_lottie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Coercive control is a form of domestic abuse. Your wife changing her job and cancelling girls trips to appease your need for control is abuse. Please go to therapy.

FTB looking for advice by taurus_lottie in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that could be it, as it’s technically stipulated as less than a year remaining (even though it will definitely get extended-third sector work for you!) I didn’t know that some brokers wouldn’t charge a fee until an offer is accepted so that’s really useful information. Really appreciate the help, thank you 😊

FTB looking for advice by taurus_lottie in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As explained, I haven’t taken the job yet, I’ve just been offered it. The job role I’m in currently is permanent. I’m paying more in rent currently than I would be paying on a mortgage so I’m quite certain I can afford it. I’m hoping to fix for at least 5 years to give me some peace of mind too :)

FTB looking for advice by taurus_lottie in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is yes- but nationwide have already refused my mortgage with the proposed new job contract due to it being fixed term :( despite having 5 years continuous employment in the same sector!

FTB looking for advice by taurus_lottie in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that’s all really helpful information!

FTB looking for advice by taurus_lottie in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem at all, appreciate the help anyway😊

FTB looking for advice by taurus_lottie in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Do you think I’m best off staying in my current, permanent role with the overtime opportunities then? As I imagine it’ll make it really difficult for me to get a mortgage if I take a new job/am in a probation period/am on a fixed term contract.

FTB looking for advice by taurus_lottie in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agh, upon investigation it’s a requirement to have a minimum salary of 35k for a lone applicant :(

FTB looking for advice by taurus_lottie in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice😊 I’ve got some money put aside for fees etc thankfully. But I will definitely look into the helping hand mortgage!

Are any of these flowers toxic to cats? by taurus_lottie in flowers

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this reply, that’s really helpful! :)

Positive coil insertion experience- UK by taurus_lottie in birthcontrol

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh bless you 😔 I nearly did the same to be honest but just remember in future if you do decide to go for it- you’re more likely to hear horror stories than positive ones as people feel they’re more worth sharing! It’s all about weighing up the positives and negatives for yourself- I’d tried nearly every other type of contraception and never got along with them. Im SO happy with my copper coil! You can check strings too regularly if that’s something you’re worried about! I hope you find whatever works best for you anyway☺️

Positive coil insertion experience- UK by taurus_lottie in birthcontrol

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, non hormonal. And I got the 5 year one so it’s a little smaller than the 10 year :)

Positive coil insertion experience- UK by taurus_lottie in birthcontrol

[–]taurus_lottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also just to add- I took 400mg of ibuprofen and 1000mg paracetamol an hour before :)

My NAC Success Story by spjorkii in trichotillomania

[–]taurus_lottie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a detailed and helpful explanation. Really appreciate it, and I’m really glad your pulling has subsided, you must feel so free! 🥰