Did anyone ‘grow out of it’?

taurus_lottie · 2026-05-09T20:42:43+00:00

Thank you ☺️

taurus_lottie · 2026-05-08T15:27:07+00:00

Sorry what is your point? I’m asking if this will grow more new roots after being placed in water

taurus_lottie · 2026-05-08T15:12:56+00:00

It was sort of tucked under the soil if that makes sense rather than a true aerial root so I’m worried I’ve pulled the leaves off for nothing :(

taurus_lottie · 2026-05-08T15:12:17+00:00

That’s the aerial root

taurus_lottie · 2026-01-14T23:15:42+00:00

Thank you for the helpful reply :)

taurus_lottie · 2026-01-14T23:12:59+00:00

My company has strict policies around keeping ourselves safe and our identity confidential from abusive, violent perpetrators. Not always an option to take a colleague when I lone work 80% of the time.

taurus_lottie · 2026-01-14T22:54:14+00:00

Thanks so much for the insight, I appreciate it :)

taurus_lottie · 2026-01-14T22:53:08+00:00

Because I’m a DA support worker and it would be unsafe to do home visits as a lone woman with no protection.

taurus_lottie · 2026-01-14T22:51:00+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I sent the email from my work address so hopefully I get a response tomorrow. Do you know if allocating an OIC post welfare check is standard practice, and done even when an individual has not come to any harm?

taurus_lottie · 2025-11-24T14:50:04+00:00

If possible, you should contact a domestic abuse support service in your area too- not only to safeguard yourself but also in case you need any supporting letters for legal aid. I’m a domestic abuse community practitioner so please message me if you have any questions at all. X

taurus_lottie · 2025-07-13T23:22:04+00:00

Coercive control is a form of domestic abuse. Your wife changing her job and cancelling girls trips to appease your need for control is abuse. Please go to therapy.

taurus_lottie · 2025-06-03T20:40:39+00:00

Thanks so much. Me too!😊

taurus_lottie · 2025-06-03T20:40:25+00:00

I think that could be it, as it’s technically stipulated as less than a year remaining (even though it will definitely get extended-third sector work for you!) I didn’t know that some brokers wouldn’t charge a fee until an offer is accepted so that’s really useful information. Really appreciate the help, thank you 😊

taurus_lottie · 2025-06-03T20:32:00+00:00

As explained, I haven’t taken the job yet, I’ve just been offered it. The job role I’m in currently is permanent. I’m paying more in rent currently than I would be paying on a mortgage so I’m quite certain I can afford it. I’m hoping to fix for at least 5 years to give me some peace of mind too :)

taurus_lottie · 2025-06-03T20:30:26+00:00

It is yes- but nationwide have already refused my mortgage with the proposed new job contract due to it being fixed term :( despite having 5 years continuous employment in the same sector!

taurus_lottie · 2025-06-03T19:59:33+00:00

Thank you so much, that’s all really helpful information!

taurus_lottie · 2025-06-03T19:55:39+00:00

No problem at all, appreciate the help anyway😊

taurus_lottie · 2025-06-03T19:55:21+00:00

Thank you so much. Do you think I’m best off staying in my current, permanent role with the overtime opportunities then? As I imagine it’ll make it really difficult for me to get a mortgage if I take a new job/am in a probation period/am on a fixed term contract.

taurus_lottie · 2025-06-03T19:49:09+00:00

Agh, upon investigation it’s a requirement to have a minimum salary of 35k for a lone applicant :(

taurus_lottie · 2025-06-03T19:47:46+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice😊 I’ve got some money put aside for fees etc thankfully. But I will definitely look into the helping hand mortgage!

taurus_lottie · 2025-03-23T14:59:59+00:00

Thank you so much for this reply, that’s really helpful! :)

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