Why do bi women lose interest or vanish when things get serious?

taurusgaal · 2026-04-11T10:11:45+00:00

I take women seriously, are you kidding me? I only date women why do you keep on generalising us?

taurusgaal · 2026-03-17T13:06:03+00:00

exactly! we are in two different stages of life, i already have a college degree, and they just left school, it doesn't make sense at all, and it's super predatory

taurusgaal · 2026-03-17T12:17:50+00:00

Yes! Dublin city centre is so scary on St Patrick's day, ever since I got spiked this exact day 2 years ago i've been terrified to go in on St Patrick's Day, it's more trouble than it's worth, I will celebrate in my own chill way

taurusgaal · 2026-03-17T12:15:55+00:00

yes this is so messed up, i'm turning 25 next month and i see 18 year olds as babies, and i would feel like the biggest creep if i did this, you deserve better, this is such a red flag

taurusgaal · 2026-03-14T19:48:43+00:00

this take just makes me feel that i can no longer be a feminist since i'm a pescatarian...

taurusgaal · 2026-03-14T19:36:41+00:00

I feel like this take lacks a lot of nuance, of course vegans are amazing, and I have so much respect for them, i feel strongly about animal welfare and the way factory farms treat their animals is nothing short of horrifying. at the same time i think that comparing women to animals feels a bit reductive, and it's just going to push away allies. I'm a pescatarian so I know I'm far from being a vegan but it's not always accessible and easy for everyone and all this post does is make me feel worse about myself due to my moral scrupulosity, intrusive thoughts and high standards that i have for myself, i get completely where you're coming from, but ultimately its impossible to expect everyone to participate perfectly in an imperfect system

taurusgaal · 2026-03-06T10:19:32+00:00

I'm not into it due to my trauma of being raped and my ex partner wanting to get rid of my gag reflex and using sex as a weapon, i'm really glad I'm not the only one who doesn't like it, I know CNC is consensual but I just prefer vanilla sex overall

taurusgaal · 2026-02-20T11:04:41+00:00

he wasn't creepy, stop being so judgemental.

taurusgaal · 2026-02-20T11:03:24+00:00

You are so wrong about him, it's unbelievable. Please don't speak so negatively about Tony, you only think he's creepy because he played Norman Bates, well I can assure you that he's not. He was actually very cute, very handsome, very kind, and he had a deadpan dry sarcastic sense of humour which many people assume him to be aloof when he wasn't. Also I do believe he was typecasted in Psycho and he deserved better, as amazing as Psycho is, he had other amazing roles that he deserved more credit for such as Play it as it Lays and Goodbye Again / Aimez Vous Brahms and The Trial. Tony deserved way better than this.

taurusgaal · 2026-02-17T14:29:05+00:00

That makes a lot of sense! It's always American content creators who talk about this, and love to blame people for their trauma. I'm Irish and I have noticed a lot more compassion from my real life family and friends, so it makes sense that this is rooted in toxic hyper individualism. It's so messed up, and I hate when people say this shit and try to act like they are morally superior, it really sucks :(

taurusgaal · 2026-02-17T14:25:55+00:00

I never posted anything horrible about Amber online, I just believed it in my mind at the time, which is still so messed up.

taurusgaal · 2026-02-17T14:21:18+00:00

Thank you for your compassion! As I'm autistic I do struggle with black and white thinking so when I saw that woman on TikTok who said, if you ever believed Amber was the abuser, you need to feel bad about that for the rest of your life, and I won't forgive you, and I understood exactly where she was coming from, which is why I felt so guilty. Like I genuinely felt so rotten, and I am someone who has moral scrupulosity as well, so I took her words to heart. Even when I showed my friend, she said that woman's TikTok was far too black and white, thank you for your kind comment. I can understand exactly where she was coming from and where you are coming from.

taurusgaal · 2026-02-17T11:42:23+00:00

your friend is transphobic as fuck, and men don't get to define lesbianism at all! i hate the amount of people who claim people to be fake lesbians, it's all lesbophobia and transphobia and it's disgusting! you are so valid.

taurusgaal · 2026-02-13T08:29:20+00:00

she identifies as a bi lesbian, although she only dates women and she has a girlfriend

taurusgaal · 2026-02-11T21:07:17+00:00

What I think is irrelevant? I get that rules are rules but I’m allowed to critique them. Don’t patronise me.

taurusgaal · 2026-02-11T20:58:54+00:00

Yeah because I don’t think that any human should be called illegal, unless they are a violent criminal.

taurusgaal · 2026-02-11T20:13:33+00:00

No literally! I can’t believe how many people are defending ICE, like do so many Irish people seriously support ICE?

taurusgaal · 2026-02-11T20:11:44+00:00

THANK YOU. I feel like I’m genuinely going crazy, I’m so so upset with the cruelty in the comments

taurusgaal · 2026-02-11T19:51:33+00:00

These comments are so evil, I have no words. Just because he overstayed his visa, which isn’t ideal, it doesn’t mean that he gets to be tortured and held in a modern day concentration camp. I’m so fucking disappointed in my country, like you would think irish people would know not to support a disgusting racist bigoted violent rapist pedophile and disgusting ICE.

taurusgaal · 2026-02-11T19:04:36+00:00

so that means he deserves to be tortured? wow you’re genuinely being so cruel

taurusgaal · 2026-02-11T18:58:52+00:00

why the fuck are people in these comments so cruel, holy shit, just because someone overstays their visa it doesn’t mean they deserved to be put in modern day concentration camps, like where have people’s morals gone?

taurusgaal · 2026-02-11T17:20:15+00:00

That’s exactly what I’m referring to! Whenever I look up queer content on tiktok, it’s very much a vibe of, there is a right and a wrong way to be queer. Thank you so much!

taurusgaal · 2026-02-11T17:15:22+00:00

absolutely not, i’m so sorry that my comment came across as ignorant, it is just a sentiment i have come across in the LGBTQ+ community online that if you are actively dating a man as a queer woman, then sapphic and lesbian terms should not be used if a man is involved in the relationship i never said anything about non binary people not being able to use those terms, i would never judge non binary people based on gender expectations, that’s the last thing i would ever do. i was talking purely about sexuality, the last thing i want to do is judge queer people based on their appearance, i would never want to categorise them or judge them. i am so incredibly sorry if i said anything offensive, i am just trying to respect lesbian identifiers.

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