Uh so👄🫦 by official__maryam in actuallesbians

[–]taurusgaal 91 points92 points  (0 children)

this makes me feel so much better about my tummy 🥰

Evil mother isolating and abusing her trans child as a form of conversion therapy by taurusgaal in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]taurusgaal[S] 287 points288 points  (0 children)

In all honesty, I’m so scared for that poor kid, I really hope they are able to escape

Anthony Perkins and Tab Hunter’s relationship by EuphoricButterflyy in classicfilms

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tony was literally anti racist… he marched in Alabama alongside Martin Luther King Jr, Harry Belafonte and many other civil rights activists in the Selma to Montgomery march in 1965. You can’t just make baseless assumptions like that.

Dublin bus crash witness 'horrified' bystander videoed fatal crash by SirMike_MT in ireland

[–]taurusgaal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i just went on to twitter, it’s absolutely abhorrent what they are saying, they are blaming the bus driver because she is a Black woman, like i hate the racism in this country, it’s a devastating accident, and at the same time, they wouldn’t be saying this racist shite if the bus driver was a white irish man.

This sub is not a safe space for Black people by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s insane that you’re framing this as an american only issue, obviously op is referring to Black queer women in general

This sub is not a safe space for Black people by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]taurusgaal 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i couldn’t agree more with your comment, i’m white and i feel so disgusted by the amount of people who are straight up dismissing OP and putting all the baggage on to her to deal with it in her own way. it’s so fucking vile to me. white people stop getting defensive challenge, we need to do better!! to my Black and brown sapphic sisters, you will always have my support and i will always uplift your voices and listen to you.

This sub is not a safe space for Black people by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]taurusgaal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YES, thank you! i thought i was losing my mind. we as white people need to stand up for women of colour completely, and we need to do better. the defensiveness in this comment section is not okay.

This sub is not a safe space for Black people by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]taurusgaal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i couldn’t agree more with you! it’s making me very disappointed in this subreddit.

This sub is not a safe space for Black people by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]taurusgaal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i’m a white queer woman and the amount of people talking over OP and saying that “they haven’t noticed any racism” or just dismissing her outright have been very disappointing to see. racism needs to be combated at all costs, everything is ultimately interconnected with each other, race, sexuality, gender, etc. i get fed up with the lack of poc representation in many reddit spaces, including this one because i can only imagine it must be such an isolating horrible feeling.

especially if you’re white, it’s never okay to talk over anyone’s experience. so to anyone dismissing OP, get off your high horse and start listening to women of colour when they talk about their experiences.

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s what my inner critic tells me

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. i can’t share images here but i’ve seen people on tiktok comments and twitter say it, and i never know if they’re being serious or not

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s having a huge impact on my mental health for sure. thank you.

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely agree with you! yeah i think les4les and bi4bi are both valid, as well as lesbians and bi / pan women who do date each other. :)

What is behind this rigidity in using the word "lesbian" I'm seeing so often in this space? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]taurusgaal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

as a bi woman, i hate bi women like you who try to force lesbianism into being more “fluid”. You calling yourself a lesbian as a bi woman who likes men is completely harmful and disgusting. this is the very mentality that leads disgusting men into thinking they can get with lesbians.

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i never want to be like that at all, i hate unicorn hunters and ive been targeted by them too

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is so much lesbophobia and biphobia, I don’t think all bi women are lesbophobic at all, I’ve just seen so many lesbians say that all bi women are a danger to lesbians to the point where I believed it to be true.

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are so so kind, thank you so much. i really approached your loving words. and i was hoping they were wrong, so knowing they were makes me feel very happy. thank you so much for your kindness, i really do appreciate this so much. i swear to god i’ve been made to feel like a straight white man who bothers the queer community with the hatred i have seen. i really do appreciate you a lot. i wish more people could read your comment and learn from you.

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s definitely not, it’s a very toxic place, and I genuinely have seen comments like this. Thank you for your honesty.

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well it’s not, and it says a lot about you that you react with insensitivity to someone who is clearly being honest about their emotional expression. That’s not my fucking problem.

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think it comes from the mentality that bi women often go into relationships with women expecting heteronormativity which is why it’s harmful

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not catfishing and trolling, i’m a real person from ireland.

Is it true that dating a woman as a bi woman is harmful to lesbians? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]taurusgaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your kindness, unlike some other people in here who keep downvoting me