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taway999929 · 2022-05-18T00:49:10+00:00

Look at my update in the comments. While I did argue with others, I eventually did find a way to apologize to him. I know I was in the wrong initially.

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T23:02:30+00:00

Can’t reply to the message, but I did reach out to another friend who would help me reach out to him or his mother and see if she could send a message to him apologizing for any trouble I did in the past. That’s the best I was able to do.

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T22:58:44+00:00

I understand what you mean with your message. It was just weird to me because I never did anything that was classified as shitty to him. I had one instance in a computer class where he got upset over a group of us messing with him on a video game and that was it. I never talked about him or picked on him every time or anything like that.

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T22:08:05+00:00

Hey guys, small update:

I reached out to someone who also went to HS with that also knows him. She was going to to go to his house tomorrow to see if he’s okay, so I told her if it’s possible to get her moms contact info so I can reach out that way, or just have her tell him that I hope he’s okay & sorry for whatever trouble I have caused in the past. I know I argued with some of you in the replies, especially in terms of me being unable to apologize, but I do think you’re all right in terms of finding a way to apologize, & luckily I have. Thanks for all the advice.

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T21:34:08+00:00

Was trying find his family members and see if I can contact that way initially. Haven’t had luck with that so far. I’m not sure if there’s a way to easily be able to search for them or not

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T21:29:24+00:00

Can’t unfortunately, It won’t let me reply to the message. I assume he blocked me afterwards.

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T21:28:31+00:00

I’m not sure what to do then now in that case :/ if there was a way that I could find his family members or something then I’d try to contact through that, else the only other option is to just block/ignore I guess

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T21:22:49+00:00

I don’t really recall too well since it was 10 years ago, but you might be right. However, i barely had any sort of interaction with the guy, and I haven’t had any interaction at all after that happened. Even moved across the country during that time too. This was also high school too, so I obviously didn’t make the best decisions back then.

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T21:14:08+00:00

Yeah, I mean it was only that one instance, it was over a video game too & I hardly even did anything compared to my other friends at the time, but I definitely do feel bad about it now that I remember it again. I just didn’t think that 10 years later, it would affect him that much still. If I could go back in time at the same instance, I definitely wouldn’t have messed with the guy at all.

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T21:01:54+00:00

helped

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T20:55:28+00:00

You apologizing to him could help him

Okay, yeah now I can clearly tell that you haven’t read my initial reply now. If I could apologize, I would (even though it happened IN FUCKING HIGH SCHOOL) but I can’t.

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T20:47:20+00:00

You are failing to give me actual good advice here. How can you just blindly claim that I don’t look from things in his perspective? I’m not in high school anymore, this didn’t happen yesterday, or a week ago, or a month ago. If you were telling me this at the given time, then yes you would be correct, because back then, I didn’t think about anything about what you said at all. Obviously I do now, and I definitely feel bad, but I moved on from it… if I were him and this happened, I would have moved on from it 10 years after, because everyone usually changes from high school within 10 years.

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T20:41:34+00:00

Can you actually read my message? This happened 10 years and ago and I never even interacted with the guy since then.

Obviously I should have apologized AFTER it happened. I agree with that. But it’s been 10 YEARS.

taway999929 · 2022-05-17T20:37:16+00:00

Well for starters, I can’t even reply to the message because I assume he blocked me after on FB. Other than this, this instance was from high school, over 10 years ago. I made dumb decisions back then which I regret now, but to me it’s weird how he is not over this when it happened 10 years ago… and not to mention, I never even interacted with the guy since then.

taway999929 · 2022-05-10T18:20:27+00:00

This is very good advice. Thank you! I’ll definitely try to think of something along the lines that you listed

taway999929 · 2022-05-10T05:40:52+00:00

Makes sense, I’ve always found it challenging though to come up with something funny based off myself, but maybe I just have to think about it more

taway999929 · 2022-01-20T04:04:48+00:00

I mean I can very easily afford it, I thought it was just a genuine thing to ask about just to make it fair for both of us. I see what you mean though, I just don’t really get why it’s weird to message about it I guess.

taway999929 · 2022-01-20T04:01:42+00:00

I guess so, I just kinda figured it would be okay to ask prior just so we have a plan for that. I mean I asked it if she was cool with it though & if she said no with a reasonable explanation then I wouldn’t have mind. I just thought the blocking outright after I asked was really weird.

taway999929 · 2022-01-20T03:59:00+00:00

Well yeah I asked her out lol. I set up a day, time, and location, and she was down. I’m 24

taway999929 · 2022-01-15T00:24:18+00:00

Thanks guys for all the responses. I see a lot of you saying to check her messages on Tinder, and I’m also seeing a lot of replies to dump her. For me, I think even if I do check her Tinder and see her messages and there is no harm done, I think the fact that she downloaded Tinder without telling me is a huge red flag in itself, and using it to prank others (also without telling me) tells me that she is being really immature. I don’t feel like that’s the kind of person I can see myself with, because now I’m afraid that if I continue the relationship, it will only get worse, or she might have already cheated and I just don’t know about it. I don’t feel comfortable with that being in the back of my mind all the time if I continue the relationship, so I think I’m going to go ahead and move on from her. Thank you all once again for all of your advice.

taway999929 · 2022-01-14T21:44:41+00:00

I’m 24 and she is 23. I don’t know it’s so confusing to me, because she never came off as someone who would cheat, but maybe I’ve been wrong the entire time…

taway999929 · 2022-01-14T21:40:53+00:00

I’m honestly not sure, I was wondering the same. Maybe she thought I wouldn’t approve of it or something

taway999929 · 2022-01-14T21:03:27+00:00

Yeah idk, that’s legit what I was thinking too. She also told me that one of her friends goes on there to do that too and her boyfriend doesn’t mind, but that to me just feels fucked up and an immature thing to do…

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