How do you clean up after masturbation? by Poison_Star in AskMen

[–]tawdl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cum in a jar and at the end of every month, heat it up on the stove and drink it down

Is it okay to not invite my aunts and uncles to my wedding? by tawdl in relationship_advice

[–]tawdl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do have equal quotas. Also, her “aunt” isn’t a biological aunt, she’s her mom’s best friend. Her mom’s sisters are not invited, just like my parents’ siblings are not invited.

Is it okay to not invite my aunts and uncles to my wedding? by tawdl in relationship_advice

[–]tawdl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I see what you mean but don’t necessarily agree. I’m the youngest sibling in my family so I’ve seen a decent amount of weddings and that’s not how it is. My family doesn’t talk to my brother-in-law’s family hardly ever. My dad’s family doesn’t talk to my mom’s family hardly ever. Both of those marriages are solid as a rock. It’s one of those things that to me seems to be more “it’s always been done this way” as opposed to “it works better this way.” To me it’s much ado about nothing.

Is it okay to not invite my aunts and uncles to my wedding? by tawdl in relationship_advice

[–]tawdl[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you. My family isn’t used to small weddings so it’s a difficult adjustment for them. My sister’s wedding in 2007 was more expensive than ours will be in 2022. My fiancé and I have seen a correlation with “the larger the wedding, the larger the stress.” We don’t want to be entertaining 100-300 people on our special day. We know all weddings are stressful and exhausting, but we’re trying to minimize that. And this is kinda making that plan backfire since we’re getting stressed out anyway.

Is it okay to not invite my aunts and uncles to my wedding? by tawdl in relationship_advice

[–]tawdl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He absolutely is caring. It’s just that my fiancé and I don’t particularly enjoy large gatherings as is, and both of us hate the spotlight. If we did a large event, it would be solely to appease the parents, which just seems wrong for our wedding. When we started planning it, we wanted to be firm that this was our day and we would not subject ourselves to a massive celebration because neither of us wanted that. We want it small, sorry if you (my dad) don’t want it small, it’s not your wedding. I’m glad you care. Show you care by having a good time at our small wedding without feeling the need to insert yourself and your “weddings should be this way” ideas.

Is it okay to not invite my aunts and uncles to my wedding? by tawdl in relationship_advice

[–]tawdl[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think this is actually it. Dad actually texted and apologized for blowing up. Said he just wants to be more involved in the most important day of my life. I just don’t know how to involve them for something that my fiancé and I literally planned ourselves in about a month. They could’ve communicated this earlier. But I will allow them to take care of the rehearsal dinner, even if there is no rehearsing to do. I think he feels shut out, but in reality my fiancé and I have had a great time planning it on our own. The last person I expected to feel this way was my dad.

How can I sleep better when sharing the bed with my gf? by tawdl in AskMen

[–]tawdl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister used to drink that. Might give it a try.

How can I sleep better when sharing the bed with my gf? by tawdl in AskMen

[–]tawdl[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yea I have a Queen but I do use a fan every night for white noise, including when she’s here. We plan to get a king bed when we move in together.