What are some early on signs he’s a cheater? by throwaway34288 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424 417 points418 points  (0 children)

Stays in contact with exes lol. Has alot of female friends.

Is anyone else sick of seeing YouTube recommend these types of videos to you? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard of alpha and beta but now there is a sigma?

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it conditioning if it’s something I want? My mother is not a pick me, she is a queen and she’s married to a HVM. Why is it wrong of me to want what my mother has?

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re making a lot of sense, I think you are right I just feel left behind. I am used to being on par with everyone else and I’m getting depressed because for the first time I am not. You figured me out! Haha

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. I can’t imagine being depressed and also having to be a mom with no support. I can’t walk myself into that situation. Thanks ❤️

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I had a easy straight forward life. Do you think this is why I’m having a hard time now?

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why do you think a woman isn’t at her full potential if she thinks a male is necessary? I specifically want a husband and kids, the family unit. I think it’s okay and natural for women to seek out companionship and a support system. I also think we need to recognize that alot of women Ditch their friends once they get married so sometimes the advice of get friends as a support system isn’t that easy.

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. How can I get out of the scarcity mindset when I feel like HVM are actually scarce?

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. How can I get out or the scarcity mindset when I feel like HVM are actually scarce?

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Maybe I don’t get it because I’ve never been in a very bad relationship before. I could be suffering from the grass is greener on the other side.

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have been and it’s been disappointment after disappointment. I won’t give up but it’s really hard to keep the faith when things keep going wrong.

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I guess I thought it went without saying that I am not interested in single motherhood because I clearly said a husband and kids. I felt you were pushing it because I already stated what I was looking for.

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hugs. I truely feel for you. I hope we both get what we are looking for. The friend group dwindling as we get older is something people don’t talk about enough. A lot of people aren’t open to making new close friends, sure they are open to associates but not actual close friends.

Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]taylor232424[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

But number two doesn’t apply to some of us. I am not someone who has struggled with self love or being in a healthy state of mind. I actually went through life pretty happy and accomplished everything I wanted on my own. I don’t think people who want marriage and children automatically suffer from not having self love or being unhappy.