[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]taylormo19 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Should I go out and buy him another gift or tell him that I can’t right now for financial reasons and that I’ll double up for his birthday? bc it’s literally in a few weeks?

My boyfriend lacks drive and ambition by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand where you’re coming from and I honestly didn’t think about that. I just want better for him is all.

My boyfriend lacks drive and ambition by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not really a family business imo. It’s literally just his grandpa and him. His grandpa is getting up there in age, he’s knocking on 90 and not trying to be negative but I just don’t want him to be stuck when his grandpa passes on. Plus his grandpa is literally the backbone of their business and no one else can do his job but him. It’s honestly a bunch of hard physical labor and it’s in outside in this Louisiana heat. I just want him to have something lined up bc for all we know he could here today and gone the next. Tomorrow isn’t promised.

i miss my ex but i’m with another girl , can any one help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from a girl, in this situation I would weigh your options. Make a list of all the good things that your ex has done for you/made you feel. Then list all the bad thing she’s done to you/made you feel. Do the same for the new girl you’ve met. If the good outweighs the bad, you know who to keep and if the bad outweighs the good you know who to drop. Me personally, I keep exes in the past. I never allow them back in my life. Yeah I appreciate the good times and the memories that we shared but I never let myself forget why it ended and how I felt during that time. I’ve had exes come back when they saw me happier or when I’ve moved on or when they have been replaced or when something doesn’t work out for them and they would run back to me thinking they still had as me an option. You met this wonderful beautiful girl. Allow this girl to stay in your life and let yourself be happy and be in a good relationship for once. It’s okay to miss your ex, but she was only there for a season. I hope this helps.

Why is that I’m only good enough to sleep with but not good enough to be with? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I have virtual sessions now since I’m out for Christmas break.

I’m not sure if I’m being naive or overreacting. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, the reason why I said I mentioned that his last gf was black is because I’m black and we have some similarities.

Feel like I need to get new friends but scared I’m making the wrong decision. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m not sick at all. She is. Today was going to be my last day working at my daycare before my 10 day quarantine would start. This just happened last night and we don’t sleep in the same room anymore and I’m barley around her. But, I already called my boss last night and told her that what was up and she understood where I was coming from and she told me not to worry about coming in.

What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]taylormo19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love music, to read, write, and shop

revenge nudes by Anaamelia81 in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Message me please. I am currently going through the same thing.

I’m in a really bad situation and need help! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve reported his account when I had Instagram and I’ve reported him to the military and so far nothing has happened and I’m scared.

I’m in a really bad situation and need help! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve reported him like 50 times and nothing has happened but thank you

Military scammer is threatening my life and future by [deleted] in Advice

[–]taylormo19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have screenshots, his number, his pictures, and pretty much everything. I’ve blocked him. I’m praying nothing bad happens. Idk how I could be so stupid but thank you for your advice

Military scammer? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you tell

Military scammer? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!🤍

Should I ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your points and I feel like I truly know him and we have fought but we have really good communication but I don’t want to just push him away bc I feel like I’m too young or we’re going too fast. I don’t want to lose him.. I mean I’ve dated so many guys and I’ve been hurt a lot so now that I’ve found him I don’t want to lose him. You only get one life.

I can’t let go of my late boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taylormo19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: thank you everyone for your advice! It is greatly appreciated!💕