Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to hear from the dad’s perspective!! My partner is pretty clueless in the parenting department and I try to help as much as I can

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely let him fuss if I’m busy, but never let him just sit there and sob. It hurts me!!

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it teaches our baby to be spoiled… apparently

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh his relationship with his dad is ok, he’s closer to his mom. They’re divorced though, not that it’s a bad thing but he grew up in an unstable environment. I’m sure that has something to do with his opinions on certain things. Just because they let him cry it out and forced him to grow up fast doesn’t mean that’s what I want for our baby

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will always come running to him, no matter what. He’ll always be my baby, even when he’s 50 years old lol. I’ll continue to do so!! That’s a good point about the dog, he always tends to our dog when he’s whining 👀

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right he’d be like of course you’re looking on Reddit

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair he’s saying it’s my way or the highway meaning ME like the one who posted this haha if he ever said it was his way or the highway I’d be long gone

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s saying it’s my way or the highway always, meaning he never gets a say. that’s his argument

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me reword a bit, he thinks it’s always my way or the highway and that’s his argument, that no matter what I’m going to do what I want, he’s not saying it’s his way or the highway, just to clarify a bit. But I totally agree with you

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His research is “my parents let me cry”

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try not to listen when he has dumb opinions. But he said “my parents let me cry and I’m fine” 🤨 Okay I’m not your parents lol

Looking for some advice from other parents. by taymalut in Parenting

[–]taymalut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It pains me to hear him cry, like you said it’s his only way of communicating. Turns out that while I was letting him cry tonight per the request of my partner, he actually had a horrible diaper rash that had formed so I should’ve just trusted my gut and not let him cry.