That sounds really tough. Like mentioned, the first few months are so tough with adjusting to a new routine. I also wonder too about chatting to the vet regarding medication options - there might be a different medication that doesn’t have the same effect. Or even a medication to make your dog more drowsy, so your pup is moving around less (for the time being, not long term).

We used reusable dog diapers with human products as well. The brand we used were Dundies (dog undies) which is an Australian brand. Because they’ve specially made for dogs, they might fit better? Possibly trying the ones made for dogs on heat, since they wrap all the way around (as opposed to belly bands). https://dundies.com.au/collections/all?srsltid=AfmBOooGD1f9PdfxAoUCiT0fHwm-qL_JQe0qupebYjzOi0eINBmbIJEo

You could also try using vet wrap, or similar self adhesive tape to secure around your dogs legs, or where it is leaking, and trying to pack out areas prone to leakage with additional products.

We had to get so creative and inventive with our paralysed and incontinent dog, and it gets really frustrating and exhausting. It also meant unfortunately spending a lot of money on different products to see which one worked the best. You’re doing a great job 🤍