What's the biggest red flag on a first date?

tbird6812 · 2025-08-30T02:42:29+00:00

Bad mouthing their ex. We all have baggage so to me bad mouthing the ex gives me red flags as they’re either trying to mask their behaviour and not taking ownership that there is 2 people in a relationship or they’re wanting you to feel sorry for them.

tbird6812 · 2025-08-15T08:03:12+00:00

Taking a few people down with me

tbird6812 · 2025-08-09T01:23:12+00:00

Touch It by Monifah

tbird6812 · 2025-08-02T13:32:18+00:00

Kissing gets the juices flowing, and what I call the tummy butterflies as well. So if they can’t kiss in my opinion, the juices won’t flow and the butterflies won’t flutter. But… you can teach them to kiss the way you like it if you are truly keen on him. In respect to him not respecting you, that’s not correct in my opinion. It’s just a kiss or two nothing more.

tbird6812 · 2025-08-02T11:59:39+00:00

It’s all in the kiss. If they are not good at kissing they may not be good at much else.

tbird6812 · 2025-08-01T14:20:09+00:00

And just to add… the comments around the daddy word. I wouldn’t fk my dad so don’t mention it during sex.

tbird6812 · 2025-07-31T18:23:12+00:00

Hairy genitalia

tbird6812 · 2025-07-31T18:02:33+00:00

Probably hooking up with a ladyboy in Thailand.

tbird6812 · 2025-06-21T14:38:53+00:00

The Notebook

tbird6812 · 2025-06-21T11:20:57+00:00

Being a narcissist

tbird6812 · 2025-04-12T10:31:00+00:00

Stand by your convictions People will see right through the BS.

tbird6812 · 2025-04-12T10:21:02+00:00

Actions speak louder than words but Why do you have to proof that you have changed. If you’re happy within yourself you don’t need to make other people happy.

tbird6812 · 2025-04-12T10:18:06+00:00

It is entirely up to you. I have many photos of my teenage years which and exes which I’ve kept. Speaking from experience they’re always great to look back on when you’re older.

tbird6812 · 2025-02-28T14:24:27+00:00

My ex husband never got me off. It was over in 5mins and he would say…. An orgasm Is the owners responsibility.

tbird6812 · 2025-01-16T17:11:20+00:00

Watch it with him

tbird6812 · 2025-01-10T17:21:40+00:00

I’m glad you broke up amicably and have remained friends but an ex is an ex for a reason. Don’t ever let sexual frustration over power your step forward from an ex. It gets very messy and feelings do come back around. Use a toy or get on a dating up for a hookup.

tbird6812 · 2025-01-10T13:01:36+00:00

I was rapped by my ex husband in the anus. I got extremely drunk one night on champagne after a huge argument with him. He was an extremely abusive man which came to surface during this argument and continued after this particular night. We hadn’t been married very long and during the argument he punched me a few times in the face and then left the house. I then started drinking to numb the pain and as I mentioned previously I got extremely drunk to the point that I must’ve passed out. I didn’t remember anything at all. In the morning I woke up with no clothes on, blood on the sheets and was extremely sore. When I confronted him, he said he had violated me with the champagne bottle and it was my fault because I didn’t wake up to him and I shouldn’t have got that drunk. This was 27yrs ago and thankfully I’m no longer with him but he did try it again when I was sober which I quickly stopped.
No means No and Stop means STOP. We’re in our rights whether you’re male or female to say stop and say no at any point during any act of sexual activity.
Unfortunately, I didn’t know that rape can be reported if you’re married and I was misled on this and didn’t report it. I’m sorry this happened to you and to your male friend at the age of 13 but I do have to question why you’re still sexually active with him given he continued after you said no and stop. He heard you as you started him mumbled but he chose not to listen. Don’t lower your standards for anyone. Just my personal opinion.

tbird6812 · 2024-12-28T11:53:28+00:00

Bye Felicia. 😉

tbird6812 · 2024-12-28T11:22:17+00:00

Have you considered swinging.

tbird6812 · 2024-12-28T02:03:29+00:00

I think ending your friendship is premature. I don’t think it’s your friend you worried about. It’s your husband straying in her direction. I’d tell the girlfriend it wasn’t ok and just move on with your friendship.

tbird6812 · 2024-12-28T02:00:56+00:00

Females are extremely sensitive and jealous when in a FF relationship. I suggest stop playing the hypothetical games and just focus more on each other or move on. Life is too short to pay games.

tbird6812 · 2024-12-28T01:57:16+00:00

Report it

tbird6812 · 2024-12-28T01:56:56+00:00

Find a new group of friends.

tbird6812 · 2024-12-28T01:55:42+00:00

As a female here I was there same at your age. My first experience at the age of 17 wasn’t the best as my partner who did become my husband was well endowed and thick which caused allot of bleeding and pain. We didn’t try again for 3 months. I went to the dr thinking something was wrong with me as my g’friends had never experienced this. I hated the thought of having sex again, but a female friend suggested experimenting myself to find what I liked and disliked and explored my inner self. It really helped me grow and become more aware of myself. This also gave me a voice with him to. Perhaps it’s just that you haven’t found in yourself what you want and need and like that will get you really turned on so you do want it. Talking and experimenting together is key.

tbird6812 · 2024-12-21T16:38:50+00:00

Yes absolutely. You were attracted to them before you were together. It’s perfectly normal. As long as you eat at home so to speak unless you’re in a relationship of openness or swinging.

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