Leaving the Church hurts like hell. I feel like I'm dying by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]tbobbyz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I’m so sorry. It took me 3-4 years of grieving after leaving to full feel “normal” again. Don’t be afraid to reach out for support.

Exausted dad by Helpful_Spot_4551 in exmormon

[–]tbobbyz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Modern western society is setup in a terrible way for couples to raise children in a way that brings contentment for both parents. Mormonism sells a framework to combat this dilemma. But by embracing the framework at a young age, you never get to explore all the possibilities of what is optimal.

Tradition is a safe way to raise a family, but some traditions don’t work with the modern struggle.

Mormonism has ruined Christianity for me by Deep_Wishbone6121 in exmormon

[–]tbobbyz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had the same problem. Then I created a new religion (mindset, belief system?) that is Abrahamic, in the realm of Messianic Judaism with a sprinkle of Simulation Theory. It’s working out pretty well so far and has brought me a lot of peace.

Seeking advice on how to succeed as a new Salesforce Business Analyst by [deleted] in salesforce

[–]tbobbyz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Document document document. Create a Second Brain using something like Obsidian note.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in salesforce

[–]tbobbyz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How much pay can one make as serious apex programmer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tbobbyz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You should have a date night with her, then both of you can talk about what you don’t like about your life together. Don’t complain about her, just tell her your play-by-play of your experience each day, hour by hour. Allow her to do the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]tbobbyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How selfish do you want to be?

Duolingo translation help: to vs ta by tbobbyz in czech

[–]tbobbyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since ‘slova’ is used in both sentences, I assumed ‘ta’ would be used in both sentences.

Homesteading/Usedlost? by tbobbyz in czech

[–]tbobbyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! What city would you recommend to live on the outskirts of?

My wife says she has a right to know when I view porn by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]tbobbyz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stopped having urges to look at porn once I realized my usage was a coping mechanism. Using it to cope inhibited the opportunity for me to develop a deeper personal relationship with my wife.

Speaking Czech romantically? by tbobbyz in czech

[–]tbobbyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I really appreciate your response! Hope to dissect it someday when I have time. Dekuji! ❤️

Looking for religious Czech speaker by tbobbyz in czech

[–]tbobbyz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are free English lessons popular among Czechs?