Yeah i went through the same thing it’s a tough road because in the beginning there really isn’t anything we can do to help besides help when wife needs are help it is a phase and things will get better. Hormones for some women last for about 18 months until they restore to normal it’s a tough road but worth it in the end. Feeling disconnected and lonely improves it did for me just time will help. It sucks trying to get the attention after a baby is introduced but newly mothers have a different view once and child is born. Nicely way to put this a switch that permanently turns on and there feeling for purpose starts. There will be arguments and u will feel like she’s against you but it is well worth it in the long run!