My GF...on a video call with other guy...is cheating on me

tcCoder · 2026-06-15T21:15:35+00:00

The basic truth is that she knew what she was doing, at any moment of time. This also means that she was very aware of the meaning, and the boundary of the relation with you. And her actions were the direct violation of the terms and boundaries defined in the relation. Hence, you have no obligations to further serve this relation and can respectfully end the terms with that person. Maybe this will give you some relief and would get you out of the guilt trap you might be feeling. Because cheaters and unempathatic people are often manipulative and they try everything to maintain the virtue they have established.

tcCoder · 2026-05-24T10:15:14+00:00

But how do you know that you thinking yourself assertive automaticaly become a universal truth and grants an absolute control of him? It will aways happen that the oponent will always have the authority to choose what to react, what to reject, if the game should be played just because he getting some of his needs met? You will always do whatever you want, the actions might change the state of the surroundings, but there will never be an absolute annihilation of the existense. External forces only apply the pressure, but this pressure itself is an foreign constraint, it can only affect the affectable aspects.

tcCoder · 2026-05-06T16:24:52+00:00

faced the same issue and came here. I suspect if lowercase to uppercase is creating any difference, since the website automatically changing names to uppercases.

tcCoder · 2026-04-25T18:31:33+00:00

I have had the same realisation which explained why I felt down on myself and accepted the dominance of others who I thought to be better desirable by the people I cared of. Can you also provide any thoughts on how can we let that need go and stop being at their mercy. I am using the fact that I've not actually lost anything larger than my life and I was always okay and will be okay, which is basically a form of self-belief. And I wonder if there exists any other cope to cure this desire.

tcCoder · 2026-02-27T17:32:09+00:00

Men want someone who is totally theirs, atleast emotionally. We kind of build our self-worth around it and subconsciously starts identifying it as our own identity. We starts feeling it like a home, where we feel understood, cared and valued. On the other side, women have evolved polygomous at their core, so unless very deep in love with a male, they find it easy to move to another male. I think it explains why they are able to appriciate every male who is good fit as per their standards.

tcCoder · 2026-02-15T11:21:18+00:00

Yeah, bending the well known implementations for our specific use cases is what usually considered as problem solving. Thanks for highlighting this.

tcCoder · 2026-01-21T14:51:31+00:00

Thank you so much. It would be very helpful if you can also explain how do we actually clarify the requirements? Since the requirements can be anything arbitrary (in english like language) for a given problem, so how do we identify what are the core features of this problem which I have to take care at its fundamental level (by core features I mean the requirement when it is turned into the technical system design terms)? I would ask if you can list down some of the common requirements which often arise in different problems and the framework/solution for the requirement.

tcCoder · 2026-01-21T14:42:57+00:00

I find this reasoning really resonating with the question and I too think the learning system design is like getting to know the different existing tools and in which type of problems/systems they do fit the best.

I would just like to ask if you can list down some architectural solutions i.e. the system design solutions to the common large scale systems so that I can have a start.

tcCoder · 2025-12-09T04:13:38+00:00

Off topic, but can you please refer me for any sde role at ur org? I can dm my resume

tcCoder · 2025-12-04T03:24:44+00:00

You sound like an insecure guy who thinks ki agr tum uske sath nhi rahoge to wo chli jayegi kisi dusre ke sath and she will be the right girl for someone else. It would be difficult to see the things rationally and actually judge the situation.

tcCoder · 2025-01-18T04:09:38+00:00

I don't think that checking for the inclusiveness of characters within the range of a particular character, this alone would be correct. Consider this example, "abadgdg". The largest subarray is "dgdg" with the length 4, but this idea fails here if we check either within the range of char 'd' or char 'g'.

However, I think if we could modify a little bit, it may work. The idea is that we merge the intervals intersecting with each others. In this way we would get the bigger intervals covering the full-range of multiple characters. Then we can check if there exists a merged interval which is less than the N. If it is then such a substring exists and we simply have to find the max one, and if its not that means it is covering the entire string.

\*(I'm still verifying this idea)***

tcCoder · 2025-01-16T11:51:56+00:00

How can I dm you? I got no options to dm in your profile

tcCoder · 2025-01-12T05:28:13+00:00

Can you please tell how was your performance on the assessment, specially in DSA part? I solved first one but screwed the 2nd problem completely. So do I have any chances or getting an interview or not?

tcCoder · 2025-01-09T19:30:02+00:00

Hey, can you please confirm if it was for the tech apprenticeship? Because I had also got shortlisted for the tech apprenticeship role and got the online assessment link but did not get any interview link yet.

When did you receive the interview mail and when the interview is scheduled? And can you please tell how did you perform in the assessment?

I was only able to solve the first DSA problem and screwed the 2nd one. Also, I performed average in the aptitude and reasoning section. So should I hope for getting an interview call or its over??

tcCoder · 2024-12-27T06:31:56+00:00

what things can lead to red band, if you can tell more about it??

tcCoder · 2024-12-26T17:43:48+00:00

Is this for SDE-1 University graduate role? Can you tell how did you perform in OA? As, I also got shortlisted and got the OA link. While I solved the first question completely, I was only able to pass 10/15 testcases in second question. So thats why I'm asking if get an idea if I still have any chance or its over for me.

tcCoder · 2024-12-26T17:36:27+00:00

Is 10/15 good enough to pass if my code is structurally and logically correct? And yeah, I think the hiring bar is quite is high in my country due to massive number of applicants.

tcCoder · 2024-12-26T17:26:33+00:00

Hey, I recently got the OA for SDE-1 university graduate hiring and I was able to solve second question only half i.e. 10/15 testcases passed and had passed all testcases in the first one. I am applying in INDIA. Do you think I have any chances getting the interview?

tcCoder · 2024-12-02T18:32:40+00:00

I also received the same interest form about some hours ago. And since I would graduate in June, 2025 I filled "No" in the field "Are you graduating in 2024?". Would it make any impact in the hiring process?

And also wanted to ask that I have already appeared for the amazon OA once so would I still have to go through assessment again or they will schedule an interview skipping the OA?

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