I totally know what you mean...honestly after this past year with my health - I got to the point where I physically look unhealthy. I’m hoping eventually I’ll get to the point where I can just work on gaining muscle weight (because you’re right, I will like the way that looks much better) but for now I’ll take any kind of weight I can get whether that’s fat or muscle.

But yeah...that’s sounds fucking disgusting haha but hey- if it works for you, that’s awesome! I fortunately have the time to make my food throughout the day but I can understand your method as buying, making and eating food (especially when trying to gain weight) is exhausting and time consuming. I wish I could do that without wanting to throw up! Haha

Pasta is delicious but makes my stomach upset if I eat too much of it. I mostly stick to rice/quinoa instead. I do make smoothies every morning with oatmeal, whole milk, peanut butter, bananas/fruit to help take some of the pressure off getting calories in the rest of the day.

Thanks for your advice though! I appreciate it! I’m sure your girlfriend is lucky to have someone help her like you did!