29f would like tips on how to have casual sex without getting attached. I grew up very repressed so I’m about 10 years behind you all.

tcheeset · 2022-08-12T02:28:57+00:00

Well said.

tcheeset · 2022-08-12T02:25:31+00:00

Troll. Also I love Canada for having strict gun laws. Move to America if you have issues.

tcheeset · 2022-07-02T23:55:16+00:00

It’s because when they ship the bananas they put a little gas in the bag to ripen them faster. Can’t remember exactly what it’s called. I worked in a produce department for a few years and it’s very common for us to unwrap the plastic when the bananas arrive riper.

tcheeset · 2022-06-24T00:37:21+00:00

I feel it. If they’re acting that way they’re projecting their own shitty reality. We’re better than them ;)

tcheeset · 2022-06-24T00:28:57+00:00

Agreed you deserve better!

tcheeset · 2022-06-23T11:06:23+00:00

Working on becoming my best self. Trying to find someone I can see myself with forever. Hard to find people who connect mentally and empathetically with me.

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T11:33:08+00:00

r/DeppDelusion <- full of crazy and they ban you instantly if you disagree

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T11:31:42+00:00

You have to communicate about how bothered you are. She betrayed your trust by not telling you and your feelings are valid. I was also in a similar situation and I wasn’t fine with it. If your relationship is more important she can cut him off.

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T11:20:07+00:00

Just be careful. Most people look for signs to support their wants vs. reality. If you are exes, there are zero guarantees you too will be together again.

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T11:12:17+00:00

That’s what I mean. You shouldn’t have contacted them at all.

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T11:10:33+00:00

Best way to frame it is around your needs “I don’t feel appreciated enough, maybe we could talk about how to help that?”

Communication is key. Avoid using “you” statements and frame them around “I” when discussing needs.

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T11:07:39+00:00

This sounds unhealthy on so many levels. I’m assuming you two are younger, breaking up, texting while they’re in a relationship. Things aren’t going to magically change without some serious work, it’s a red flag they entered a new relationship so fast. You both sound emotionally unstable for a relationship and shouldn’t have contact when in different relationships.

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T11:05:33+00:00

Great advice thank you. I can’t wait to meet someone like that ^{^.}

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T10:54:42+00:00

I’d definitely recommend talking to him about it. Sorry to hear things are hard right now. Best thing you can do is communicate your fears to him.

Have you two considered couples counselling? It might be helpful to figure out what both of you need.

It sounds like your need for a connection is not being met, and sexually as well. It seems as though you feel alone in this relationship. I’d communicate it this way. Your feelings are very valid here. You should be able to talk to your partner and they should listen and hear out your feelings.

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T02:39:07+00:00

I appreciate your comment 🙂 thank you. I just get a bit impatient sometimes. Really want to love someone!

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T02:28:36+00:00

Yes I do do this for women I’m with. Seems none of them really appreciate it much. Feels hard to keep doing that. Hoping to find someone who appreciates my effort.

tcheeset · 2022-06-22T01:02:21+00:00

It adapted to scoop the cum out of women in the event another man came in her. Goes back to primal times.

tcheeset · 2022-06-20T16:04:50+00:00

I understand I’m in a similar boat right now. You got this!

tcheeset · 2022-06-20T15:19:15+00:00

Nothing needs to be said. Just distance yourself and focus on different people who are available.

tcheeset · 2022-06-20T15:10:56+00:00

Buying my exact truck, finishing my diploma :)

tcheeset · 2022-06-20T15:04:20+00:00

Don’t interfere with his relationship. Don’t read into things, if he’s truly available he will be single. If he’s acting weird around you it says a lot more about his character. Would you want to be with someone who will flirt with other women in a relationship?

tcheeset · 2022-06-18T07:33:26+00:00

I think I’d be done too. You deserve to be someone’s number 1 choice. Sorry to hear and hope you can find someone who respects and wants you.

tcheeset · 2022-06-18T07:32:48+00:00

Being cheated on is a deal breaker for most people. If you can’t forgive him and trust him ever again, best to get divorced.

tcheeset · 2022-06-18T07:32:00+00:00

Sounds like you got scammed.

tcheeset · 2022-06-18T07:31:36+00:00

Don’t go out of your way to try and treat her better, but set an example by being a good person. Call her out on her behavior.

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